Jealousy Is A Killer!!!
Wow!!! I had to share this message with you that I received today from BM. I'm actually tripping about her displayed rage, hatred, & obvious jealousy . . . wow!!! She is so far gone & she'll never change. SMH. Oh so that you know what happened, I found out that SS11 was on FB & I sent [him] the following message & several weeks later (today/Saturday), I received this message from BM.SMDH
This is the FB message I sent to SS11 a few weeks ago as follows:
Hello there young man. I can't believe you're on FB at such a young age; I stopped by [SD's] FB page & your picture popped up as one of her friends . . . I'm glad you're in touch with your sister & I'm hoping all is well with you. God Bless You Sweetie. ♥
9 hours ago This message was sent to me by BM via SS's FB account & she blocked me from his page as follows:
Look Bitch!!!! Dont you ever email my son again! Who the hell do you think you are? you are nobody! Aint shit! Stop stalking me and my son! get a damn life. Nobody here could care if your ass lives or dies... you nasty ass whore! :jawdrop:
I haven't responded to her but I intend to do so as follows:
Wow!!! Really, BM??? Jealousy is a killer. It has been 9-years now since DH has graced my life with his presence and you still have not gotten over the fact that you lost him. However, I want you to be [clear] on one-factor . . . you lost him wayyyy before I met him so this rageful anger & hatred that you have for me is displaced (you need to stop it & look at the female in the mirror). You've made your life what it is today & I had nothing to do with that. As for my husband's loving son, SS11, you cannot change what he feels for me or what I feel for him. He's a lovely child and God will watch over him & protect him despite your evil & malicious stunts and drama that you continue to pull. You are so far gone that you can't even realize the damage you're doing to your son . . . you will [remain] in my prayers. SMH
Btw: As for the [nasty ass whore] comment you made, you are the one who had [two] kids from [two] different men & you're still not married . . . so eat your words!!!! I won't lower myself to your level to call you out of your name . . . those days are over. I have my loving husband & beautiful children to concern myself with. Many well wishes are sent your way.
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Don't engage. It will self
Don't engage. It will self perpetuate.
That's an awesome idea.
That's an awesome idea.
if you do intend to respond i
if you do intend to respond i think the kill her with kindness is definitely the approach to take
i like it but it probably won't solve anything...
Thank you
Thank you
Thank you ladies for reading
Thank you ladies for reading my blog & for sharing your views; much appreciated. As for BM perhaps taking my FB comment the wrong way, I didn't consider that being that it doesn't take much to set her off balance (she's always behaved like she's missing a few screws). She hasn't gotten over my DH yet . . . a couple of weeks ago she text a photo of herself to my DH saying, 'I'm still standing!' I truly don't understand her behavior & hatred! Btw, she alienated SS11 from DH after we married . . . it's such a long story that I can't blog about it, I could go one for days telling my BM story. I think it would make a bestseller novel. SMH. I'm taking all of the suggestions provided; thanks again ladies!
Thank you. I really
Thank you. I really appreciate you ladies helping me come to terms with this, b/c I truly feel great about [not] sending her a response email. All of you are so right, which is why I shared this ordeal in a blog. I knew I could rely on some sound advice . . . thank you so much ladies.
Now that she knows you have a
Now that she knows you have a FB account, she will probably try to check up on you...so, instead of engaging with HER...put "my husband is awesome, we are so lucky to have each other posts..." that should take care of her...haha...
LMBO!!! Herewegoagain, when I
LMBO!!! Herewegoagain, when I joined FB a few years ago I was told by my sis-n-law that BM was on FB. As a result of all her lunancy behavior & not wanting her to know [anything] about our personal lives, I blocked her completely from my account. Shame on me for not considering that she would find out about my sending my SS11 a friendly (loving) message. As for my SS11, I wonder if he even received my message (or is that account actually his account), who knew my message to him would bring about such a hateful, evil response from her. I never considered she would see it; makes me wonder about my relationship with my SS (it changes everything). From now on, I will definitely feed him from a long-handle-spoon & keep my distance. I'm glad we don't live in the same state; makes it very easy for me to stay clear.