Well it was about TIME!!! The rose color glasses DH has been wearing when he see's SD are finally breaking. She seems to always turn into a "perfect" little angle when daddy is around, so when I tell him about her attitude, the one that looked stupid was ME.

So what happened you ask??... great question, glad you asked!!!

Well apparently she has been displaying the same attitude at her after school program and yesterday was the last draw for her counselors. Her display of emotions was fit for a 4 year old. When I picked her up from her camp the counselor approached me and started telling me the story, it took my all not to laugh right then and there. SD was standing behind the lady crying and hiding behind her back-pack.

The counselor said that since the summer, she has acted this way. Every time she doesn't get something or something doesn't go her way she throws a fit. She screams and yells, stomps her feet, and cries for hours. This last time was because she was one of a handful of kids to have homework and was not allowed to play until it was finished. Well, when she gets upset she doesn't do her homework properly and takes her twice as long; THAT is what happened, she took forever to finish and didn't have much time left to play. When she finally finished she only had about 10 minutes left to play before they had to return to camp, they had gone to the playground because the weather has been so nice lately. When she was told that it was time to go she FREAKED out, to say the least!!!

This is exactly how she acts with me, not with daddy, grandma, or other people WITH ME and apparently her after school camp. I asked the lady to please write it down for me so that I could show DH AND the therapist. They both think that I am crazy for suggesting SD has a behavioral problem, but this is a little crack in the ceiling!

I told DH that HE needs to speak with therapist because OBVIOUSLY there is something wrong with SD. She OBVIOUSLY doesn't know how to show her displeasure in an appropriate way. The therapist needs and SHOULD address this AND teach us how to help her cope. YAY, others are starting to speak up and I am not left looking like the idiot.

BTW!! DH didn't ever punish her. He spoke to her and made her aware of that her performance was not appropriate. WHAT!!! WTF!!! OOHH and she kept saying... "I'm scared... I'm so scared" when I asked why... "because daddy or you are going to hit me" WTF?!? We have NEVER laid a hand on her!! She pisses me off so much!! FML!