We spoke with our attorney today and she said that the Hearing Officer wants Dh to go to jail, because he believes we have PAS'd him against BM. She said that based on letters she has received from SS7's G.A.L.s, they seem to be against him already. We have only had one meeting with them and they are coming this weekend for a home visit. Our attorney called the G.A.L.'s supervising attorney, as they are 3 law school students, and told her that she feels Dh is not getting a fair shake as he is the good parent and they are falling into BM's lying and manipulative trap. She explained to her that BM has cancelled 2 visits in the last 3 weeks, on one visit fed him an entire poboy meal from Popeyes, 4 brownies, 2 nutri-grain bars, and 3 additional soft drinks, and at the last visit BM told SS to tell Dh that she was going to talk to him about making the visits 3 hours instead of 5 hours. Dh did talk to her about an hour after she told SS that she would. BM told Dh that she was thinking about shortening the visit time as SS gets bored. She has her visitation at a supervised visit location through the sheriff's office. This place has dozens of bored games, movies, toys, coloring books, inside bowling, outside basketball court, plus she can bring whatever she wants. He is not getting bored, she is!

As proof that the G.A.L's are on BM's side already, just 2 hours after our attorney called their supervisor, they called BM and told her what she said. BM send Dh a text message "How can u make up lies about me again. Feedin SS 3 brownies and 3 candy bars. And me wanting three hours. U really need to grow up." Dh responded "The social worker at harmony house told me that you fed him a popeyes meal, 4 brownies, 2 nutrigrain bars, and 3 soft drinks the weekend i picked him up early bc he had a stomach ache." Mother of the year's response was "Whatever that was three weeks ago." Like that makes it ok?!?! Dh then said "U even told SS that u wanted to talk to me to reduce the time to 3hrs then we talked about it on the phone don't u remember??? I DON'T LIE!" BM responded with "No we didnt talk about that and i wouldnt talk to SS about that any way. I DON'T LIE EITHER!" Yes you do you dumb bitch!!!!!

My mom (an attorney and officer of the court) and I were in the room when he talked to BM on the phone about reducing the time. She talks ridiculously loud so not only did we hear his side of the conversation we heard hers too. Plus, the head of the supervision place and a social worker both heard SS say "BM (he calls her by name) said she wants to talk to you about making it 3 hours because she says I get bored."

BM is such a stupid, piece of shit, liar!!! Ugh!!!! I'm so damn angry! We work so hard to give SS a good, happy, safe life and she is just a hateful, lying, pitiful excuse for a mother who really and truly does not care about this kid. We are talked to and investigated like we are criminals even though she has abused him his whole life and molested him in June!! How do we try to prove that she is lying when she denies everything?!