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Really BM part 2

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Submitted by snoopyinoz on Wed, 05/09/2012 - 2:05pm

Ok so BM hasn't bothered to do a thing involving the kids since Christmas. No phone calls no letter, card, email NOTHING. But wait SHES THE MOTHER! So this means in her little world she can do whatever! DH got a call from the atty this morning, aparently BM DEMANDED that she have the kids this weekend. Didn't ask, didn't plead but demanded. Then said if DH doesn't comply he will be responsible for her atty fees, her last trip to the drop off point and she will take us back to court. Um ok. Sure. Seeing as how it's been PROVEN that the weekend youad the trip wasn't even your weekend to have the kids! Not to mention that BM has been told to contact DH directly for visitation. I told DH that he needs to make that point CLEAR to BM that she needs to call HIM directly. Just because it's mothers day, BM thinks she can make it all about her, and watch, when she brings the kids back, DH won't hear a damn thing from her for 3-4 months, as is her nature. I hate to be this way, but I hope to hell and back she manages to royally screw her self this weekend. (ie take the kids phone away, not let them call per the order ect).

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Submitted by snoopyinoz on Wed, 05/09/2012 - 2:37pm

I've pondered that and may have come up with an answer. From a planet far far away in the galaxy called "Stupido" here on planet Stupido, ungrateful BMs are prized for their uncanny, backward ideas and every time one of their ideas works, (even halfway) they are rewarded with praise and money, jewels, and whatever their black little hearts desire. (and I am in no way knocking the BMs that actually oh CARE about their bios. But this woman could care less)

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Wed, 05/09/2012 - 2:38pm

Do you have to let them go?? I am having anxiety that my FSS's BM is going to magically pop up this weekend. She is a "fugitive" though so we will just call the police. I hate that these women can just pop in and out a few times a year and jack up the kids that we are raising as our own...

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Submitted by snoopyinoz on Wed, 05/09/2012 - 2:40pm

Unfortunately, yes, we do. And it breaks my heart because for the last 2.5 years BM has seen the kids a grand total of 8 times, piping in when it's "convient" for her. So next week DH and I will be dealing with the fallout. The oldest SD does NOT want to go, for a number of reasons.