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daisy0202's picture

A friend of mine (SD's aunt) saw a post on FB from SD that read....GREAT, now what..This sucks and no one cares...

She was laughing because she knew what happened and we were at her house sat when we had to leave. Shes like...this is what you get when you act like a 6 year old...

Then she heard that SD told BM how upset she was to move out and now daddy will never pay attention to her. BM told her to cut the shit and SD and BM got into big fight.

Its like this little girl needs drama to live....Waiting to see what happens Thursday. We are leaving after work so she has enough time to stir up some shit.....

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CrazieCoconut86's picture

There is a big difference between caring and being manipulated. She really needs to learn this.

And I find it hilarious that even her mother told her to cut that shit out. I guess that is why BM let her live with her father, she even got tired of it.

imjustthemaid's picture

I think you should tie her up, tape her mouth shut and lock her in the closet until you get back }:)

imjustthemaid's picture

I agree. She is so not a normal kid. At least my SD15 goes out with her friends most of the time and thats what keeps me sane. I feel bad you have to deal with her. She should go back to BM and stay far away so you can have a normal life again!!

daisy0202's picture

OMG I wish. She has been going to BM a little more, not to often but her aunt tells me stay patient she will be back there. they are 2 of a kind. GOD I hope so.

She never goes to friends house and when she does she is there for a short time and back again.

3familiesIn1's picture

Your SD needs a hobby or a job. Something to keep her busy outside of playing with her Dad. Her dad is her only playmate so she is at a loss when he is unavailable to her.

I know its hard Daisy - living apart sucks - but hopefully it will build a better stronger marriage that will last forever in the long run.

smdh's picture

I surmise that my SD who is now 8 will be exactly like your SD when she is 16. She has no friends. She has no interest in making friends. When she comes here after school, she plants herself in the room with dh even though he is working. All of the other kids in the neighborhood are outside playing and she just sits there waiting for him to have minute of free time so she can jump on it before he shares it with me or DS. Even when we're out at some "family" oriented event and other children are playing, she wants daddy to play with her.

I can't imagine it will get better as she gets older. Sadly, my dh actually does do a great job of keeping her in check and that hasn't helped.

daisy0202's picture

This is what surprises me. Whe I first meet her she was not like this. Not at all. This just started happening like 2 years ago and has become worse and worse.....Mostly become ridiculous when she started fighting with BM....

I am not a mean bitch, I totally get DH is all she really has but my god she has no clue on the real world and will be 17 in Sept...

buterfly_2011's picture

Oh my the facebook drama.

you are NOT a bitch daisy. This girl needs to find something besides her DADDY to occupy her extra time. My SD is 17 and she relies SOLEY on my SO all summer for her entertainment. She refuses to go anywhere without him at her side. Even to swimsuit shop etc. She won't go to the store without him. She won't go for a walk without him. Hell she screams for him when she is in the bathroom. She screams for him if he leaves her sight. She screams for him for nothing JUST to make sure he isn't with me or next to me or touching me. And if he doesn't do what she wants all of us pay the price. These girls are seeking attention from their daddy's that is UNHEALTHY. And frankly it disgusts me .

These girls are clingy because their daddies let them be after they were divorced. And they were the only woman in their fathers lives. Now they have to share and they are selfish about it. It's that simple.

I think their should be a vacation getaway for SM's like all of us who deal with such stupid ass drama every day.

mommaTina's picture

My SD is the same way, clingy to her father but she is only 2 yrs old and I have been in her life since she was 4 mnths old. Why do you think she acts this way and is there a way to stop it?