If It Looks Like A Dog and Barks Like a Dog......
It probably is.
I sit here everyday thinking about the term "emotional incest." With some of you ladies, I hate to say it, but I have a feeling it goes way beyond emotional. I only have one experience to relate to. My cousin was dating a father who had a teenage daughter and she was a mini-wife and all up his ass. She would call and text repeatedly during their nights out. She would insert herself into adult situations and decisions. It was just weird. I will give you one guess about what happened when she set up video cameras in her home. Now this is the reason why she was allowed in cousin's bed and the reason why dad didn't mind staying with daughter elsewhere. So let's just say daughter was 15 and dad's in jail for a very long time. I have to wonder about some of these SD's on here. Are they actually WIVES? A lot of these stories I have to admit that I wonder.
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Me too!! I hate to say
Me too!! I hate to say it..but...I think that could be the situation with Daisy's DH. And maybe Elizabeth's DH.
I don't want to name names
I don't want to name names because these ladies have such a hard time and I know they love their DH's. But I have seen this first hand and the proof is in the pudding. If it looks like something..... it probably is.
I hope longer translated into
I hope longer translated into forever. That's outright disgusting.
When we hit 9 years old, my parents started distancing me and my sister from dad, changing with our door closed, dad knocked, no more running around the house naked, no more sitting on his lap, no more helping us bathe. Not that anything would have happened but there was no way in hell it would have even been implied.
Would have been the same if we were boys instead but we would have been distanced from mom.
They've heard too many horror stories of what could happen.
IT IS a different world out
IT IS a different world out there. Implications are made all the time. There is NO reason for a dad to be putting himself in that position unless he is up to something.
EXACTLY. Why would anyone
EXACTLY. Why would anyone even allow an implication like that to be made is beyond me.
I can count the number of times after puberty that I even gave my dad a HUG on my hands and feet. A kiss on the cheek happened a bit more often but only if they were leaving for a long time or a BIG EVENT. (My sister even less but then again, she hates touchy feely stuff.)
I don't know, my family's old school traditional so propriety is of utmost importance. I do have a friend who is happy when she gets mistaken for my dad's GF though, thankfully her dad thinks it's weird and disgusting.
I think that some of these
I think that some of these SM's of mini-wives should set up video cameras and see what they find. If anything, they can catch SDs stealing their shit.
i wish my mother had had the
i wish my mother had had the common sense you women do. my sf was regularly busting in on me when i was taking a bath and this was at ages 11-15. (i ran away at 15, gee i wonder why?). EVERY single time i was in the tub, he had to pee. like it couldn't wait. he would turn his back so i couldn't see him, but he got a good look at me before doing that. she apparently thought this was perfectly normal and innocent. he just about lost his damn mind when i said i wanted a lock on the bathroom door. if he wasn't doing anything wrong, why was that such a big deal? you would have thought i said i wanted him to dismember himself for my entertainment.
my mom asked me a few years ago if he had ever "done anything" to me. like it matters now. i'm in my 30's, and he's been dead for almost 2 years. he tried to one night when i was sleeping and changed his mind when i pulled the sheet up to my neck and rolled over. i think the only reason nothing ever happened is because he knew i would have told EVERYONE. he wouldn't have been able to scare me into keeping quiet. the fact that she asked me that after all these years tells me that she really did know it was wrong and inappropriate, but God forbid she stop him from doing what he wanted to. he might leave if she did that! just as long as he doesn't leave, it's ok to do whatever he wants to. including raping her daughter. she probably would have convinced herself it was my fault and i seduced him. :sick: she should never have been allowed to have kids.
Bi I am so sorry that this
Bi I am so sorry that this brought up your past. That is horrible and unfortunately it is a reality. I could not stand by and allow this shit to keep happening. It is crazy the stories on here and i cant help thinking that some of these mini wives are being abused.