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Sigh....don't want to but feeling a little sad for DH's kid

Shaman29's picture

She is not my most favorite person in the world and I'm tons happier when she isn't around.

However yesterday, she sent a text to DH asking him to call her. So he does and he comes to find out that Uberskank is being unreasonable again.

DH's kid was spending time with a friend, who drove her home afterwards. When she walked in the door, Uberskank said if she knew her friend was driving her home, she would have had her stop at the store. DH's kid called the friend and asked if she would come back and pick her up so she could run an errand for Uberskank. Friend says sure and drives back to DH's kid's house. DH's kid gets the list and debit card from Uberskank and asks if she can give her friend some money for gas and time. Uberskank says, sure, give her a little money.

They do the shopping and DH's kid gives friend $10 for gas. Uberskank apparently freaked out on DH's kid and told her I thought you'd only give her 2 or 3 bucks, not 10. DH's kid apologized to her mom, but Uberskank continued the rant, following her around the apartment and threatening to shut of her cell, call her grandmother and DH to tell them once again DH's kid was causing problems.

DH's kid was understandably upset and asked DH if Uberskank had called him. He said no, they continued talking on the phone and he told her because this is the third time this has happened, she should get a dollar amount from Uberskank instead. DH's kid said she would and told DH she'd keep him posted on what's going on.

I asked DH if he told his kid that it wasn't anything she was doing wrong. That Uberskank was just upset about how the stalking trial turned out against Baby Daddy 3. Reader's Digest version, Uberskank had set up Baby Daddy 3 to violate the stalking order she had out on him, to get him out of her way (had he been convicted, he would have faced 6 years in prison). However, the judge saw through her crap and the judge dismissed the charges against him. So now DH's kid is paying the price because Uberskank didn't get her way. She is nitpicking DH's kid and threatening her with punishment.

I said "DH, you need to tell her she's not doing anything wrong and that if Uberskank had a BF right now, it would have been him bearing the brunt of her temper and not her." Of course he didn't tell her this. I said DH, Uberskank is treating your kid the way my mom treats me, you have to tell her it's not anything she's done wrong. Or she's going to continue to feel all of this is her fault."

Of course he hasn't and I want to kick his ass. I don't think I'm the only one looking forward to DH's kid turning 18, I have a feeling she is too.

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NCMilGal's picture

BM treats SD16 similarly - SD16 is the root of all evil, and is a bad, horrible influence on her other spawn (whose daddy ran off the SECOND BM announced she was knocked up). Her younger child is ALL HERS - while SD16 has a pretty huge case of hero-worship for DH and I.

Less than 600 days to go until SD16 graduates from high school - we're already planning Operation Great Escape. If SD16 is of a mind to, we will facilitate getting SD16 out of that shithole of a town and cutting off communication with BM, the second it is legal to do so.

Shaman29's picture

DH made a comment to his kid that CS will go directly to her once she turns 18, which will be at the beginning of her senior year. It makes me wonder if she will move out, if she is pushed too hard by Uberskank. They live in a town with a small college and there are a ton of small apartments for cheap.

She's talking about getting a job now too and is starting to sound serious about it this time.