I played nice ALL weekend! I took her to practice driving, i took her ro the park (she wanted to get some asthetic pictures of herself). I watched what i said, and how i said everything around her. DH said something about how i was looking so pretty, and he can tell how much weight im losing, and i mentioned how skinny doesn't equal beauty (SD is over weight and i don't want to foster feelings of self hate, so i made sure to say that, even though i know DH was just trying to compliment me, sometimes men can be daft)...

Well i had no idea that sd was coming this weekend as DH had been switching weekends, and i just lost track of time and days.  Well LAST Saturday i made a bunch I'd different energy bites some have almonds, some have walnuts.... SD is allergic (supposedly) to almonds.  On Friday (almost week later)  when she came she said "ooh what are these, can i have one"  without thinking i said, "sure" i quickly remembered that one of them had almonds!  I told her "wait that one has almonds, don't eat it." She had already taken a bite, but threw the rest away.  I told her if she started to feel weird to let us know.  She never felt weird, so i completely forgot about it. 

I forgot about it until DH recieved a long text from BM that went on and on about how im trying to sabotage her and i purposefully gave sd almonds and etc.... really? Really sd? Really BM?  God, they suck! the more i think about it the more i get pissed about it! 

If iknew sd was coming this weekend i wouldn't have made anything with almond (just for clarification). Even though sd had repeatedly eaten almonds at holiday events (my sister made almond brittle,  her aunt on DH's side made a cheese log with almond) and never once had a reaction, i try to do MY best to not have anything at the house that has almonds when she's around.