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ladybug1974's picture

Here i am again .. They are coming back this friday. The 8 year old is ok , pleasent clean, eats with manners, helps with dishes, fun to be around for the most part. Then there is the 15 year old........................ omg i cant take it. Hes rude , doesnt say hello or goodbye, eat like a pig ( i have nver seen anything like that. He weird, doesnt like going pllaces where there are people. Hes so strang. The eating is the owrst i really dread eating with him and eating is like my most favorite thing to do lol 

how much longer does he have to come for sleepovers ? he will be 16 in 2 months. when my son was 15 or 16 he would be picked up by my ex to go golfing for the day dinner ect ,, camping here and there, not sleep overs every other weekend. God make it stop.please. How much longer will he want to come for sleepovers ? we have small place he shares a room with his brother , At that age doesnt he want to be out with freinds. Hes so freaking lazy, all he does is he walks in sits down in HIS spot as he calls it and doesnt freaking move , unless to eat the 3 meals a day he so likes. I really cant stand this kid.

Loxy's picture

Has he been tested for Autism or other disorders? 

As for custody, I think the norm is the schedule is maintained until the kids hit 18 and/or finish high school (whichever comes first) unless of course the skid asks/pushes for a change. I would love my SD16 to live full-time with BM but I've resigned myself that I'm stuck with 50/50 custody until she finishes high school end of next year. 

What does your DH think of SS15's behaviour?

ladybug1974's picture

hes with me and sees everything, he says how can i fix anything i only see him 48 hours every 2 weeks, he does say things , like use your napkin, eat over your plate , dont do this dont do that, i see his point too he doesnt want to nag the 48 hours he sees him every 2 weeks . 18 ? really ? crap that 2 more years oh no !!!!!