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Bratty has COVID so I'm safe from a visit

caninelover's picture

I had blogged previously about Bratty suddenly being nice to me, which raised alarms that they would ask for a visit.  There is an event they like to go to here in early June which was cancelled in 2020-21 due to the pandemic, but it is happening live this year.

Well I am safe now.  Bratty caught COVID (at the Mermaid Convention she went to...ha ha) and was sick enough to go to the ER (they sent her home and she is isolating and recovering).  I had already laid some groundwork with SO that we don't want to entertain houseguests (without mentioning Bratty specifically) in June and generally lay low a bit to avoid any COVID exposure ourselves (SO had a recent bought but I haven't caught it yet - knock on wood).  He agreed, so now with Bratty sick and us not entertaining any houseguests, I am assured peace and quiet through our trip and reception in early July.  Thank goodness.

Also Bratty and their Aunt - who uninvited them to stay with them in July for the reception and subsequent family reunion - now seem to have agreed that Bratty wiill stay with her two nights after the reception.  I think the Aunt felt guilty at initially saying yes but then saying no.  Bratty is staying with Nutter GF's parents who live in the area for the rest of the time (though SO did get them a room at the reception hotel to avoid their driving on that night).  I know Nutter's family met Bratty when she attended a wedding with Nutter last year but I don't know how much time they've spent together.  

I think Bratty didn't want to stay with Nutter's parents (and wanted to stay the whole time with her aunt) because she knows she'll have to be on her best behavior with Nutter's parents.  No attitude or entitled demands at all which is hard for her.  LOL.  I also found out that Nutter's father is a doctor (and Nutter's brother is in med school now) so I'm sure he'll be peppering Bratty with questions about her med school plans (which she hates because the truth is she is far from a shoe-in for med school acceptance).  I wonder what he'll think of his darling Nutter dating a professional mermaid...

For our reception the caterer will make two seperate vegan plates for Bratty and Nutter.  Bratty seemed pleased at the special attention.  She will be relegated to a regular guest table with her cousins and not seated with SO and I.  We're also skipping family speeches, etc so she won't have a role other than to just attend.  I told SO he is responsible for any Bratty drama on that day and I won't be dealing with her.

So, things are set and I don't have to see Bratty until July 10th at the reception.  This puts me in a good mood!

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Aniki-Moderator's picture

Oh, come on. Admit that you're reeeeeeeeeally disappointed and crying into a carton of ice cream... Wink

caninelover's picture

I am trying to avoid showing my joy since I don't want to irritate SO - but I am damn joyful these days!

missgingersnap2021's picture

Oh I totally get the trying to hide your joy. Last night SD was supposed to sleep over but told DH she didn't want to be cause she had to be up early this morning for some reason so after dinner she went home. When he was telling me that she wasnt going to be sleeping over it was all I could do to keep a calm neutral face. 

caninelover's picture

Its a balance because I don't want to rub SO's face in it.  But I sure am glad!!!

JRI's picture

I'm sorry to hear Dr. Mermaid is sick.  Let me ask an indelicate question, was she vaccinated?

caninelover's picture

When she was working as a medical assistant, she was vaccinated in one of the early waves for health care workers.  She posted on FB bragging about it, of course.

advice.only2's picture

Oooooh I want to get in on the reception special vegan meal poll before it begins.  My money says MermaidBretty sees everybody else’s food and questions why she didn't get x y or z.  Or she gets her vegan plate and claims it’s awful and demands one of the other plates being offered.  You might want to have some Boston Market on standby just in case..

caninelover's picture

Specifically what the caterer was going to do.  A vegan wellington, which is vegan puff pastry with a mushroom filling.  Sounds gross to me but Bratty gave it a thumbs up.  Oh - Nutter GF went to a family wedding last year at this same hotel and had their vegan wellington (probably their one vegan go-to dish LOL) and liked it.  So that also means Bratty won't complain - well about that, at least.

caninelover's picture

And I copied SO on the email where I explained what their special meal would be, so he knows they gave it a thumbs up.

And in my email I also graciously told her and nutter GF there will be a few vegan options on the buffet so feel free to help themselves to that in addition.  Though I know the options on the buffet are Indian food and it would be too spicy for Bratty so she probably won't touch it.  Nutter likes Indian food so she might have some.

la_dulce_vida's picture

Well, if they turn their noses up at the vegan platters, there is always boston market chicken and mac n' cheese. LOLOL

 

MissK03's picture

Can you live stream a hidden camera at bratty's table for step talk??! Haha

IMO I don't see Bratty stiring up anything at the reception. Hopefully she knows IF she does that it will not be a good move on her part... Family reunion is another story.

Glad everything is coming together and you can relax with just a handful of weeks left before your wedding!! Congrats!  

caninelover's picture

But I think you are right.  Probably no drama at the reception since Nutter GF and family eyes will be on her.  During the reunion, she might get a little brazen - but also think having her family around will likely mute that.

Thanks MissK!