It has been a while since we had one those weekends with SD 15 and she is back with her attitude and entitlement in full force to disrupt whatever little peace we had ! SD has not stayed the night here in months but when she did there was never an issue and she never had a attitude like today. I was actually enjoying her being around, yea not so much now! First last night, she stuffed some spare baby blanket I put in one the spare drawers I. DD5 already stuffed PJ drawer. SD has some drawers here but not because she likes to keep clothes here to wear here. She likes to just them so she has her place here. She will put stuff in there like old PJs and socks she never ever wears. So when she was not coming over anymore DH cleaned out some pjs of hers that were waaaaay to small and since there was like some spare room in one of the drawers, I put a baby blanket there until I was able to get out the baby blanket box to store it. Will I guess SD didn't like that DD blanket was there and stuffed it with DD stuff . Not really a big deal but I know where SD was headed. Then today as we are getting g dressed I hear her arguing with DH about the room situation. SD and DD5 have a bunk bed. MIL bought it so SD would have a bed here and that sucker is super sturdy and was expensive since it's sold wood . DD5 and SD share a room and we also have out DD 2 dresser in there and a few toys. The room is not big and there's just enough space for their stuff. I was the  one that bought brand new comforter set, pillow, shelving and decor for the top part of SD 15 bunk bed. I even put a little mirror there for her . But since SD stopped coming we didn't make a huge fuss over it. Also our DD5 likes to sleep on the couch but lately we have been getting g her to sleep in her bed . Anyways SD was telling DH that we needed to switch beds and let DD who is 5 sleep on the top bunk so SD ( who is never here) can have the bottom bunk bed ! She would not let it go and I'm shocked that DH even entertained it! It should have been a hard no! First of all that is not even safe to make a 5 year old climb and sleep on a top bunk so a 15 year old can have the bottom?!??!?'SD kept talking back to DH about it and how she is trying to have a voice ?!? Cool you can have your voice but also you are a child! I wanted to step i. So bad as my blood was boiling !!! Over my dead body would I switch beds and put my 5 year old at risk! Then she went on to say how the top was dusty ( I clean it before she come so it's not dusty ) then I hear SD talking to BM on the phone and telling her how there's not even a spare for her to do her hair or a space to put her make up set up at !!! And SD starts arguing with Dh over that ! He tells her that she can bring her makeup mirror from home and put it on her bed or use the mirror there and she says " that crappy thing" ( she is referring to the mirror I bought and put there ) then SD starts to say how she can't put it on her bed because her siblings will touch it! Keep in mind that none of the kiddos have ever touched her belongs on her bed. They can't reach it and we put in the bunk bed ladder when she leaves . Or she can store or mirrors under the bathroom sink . That is not good enough for her , she wants to have it all set up here ! It's like why? For the 3 times a year you are here ! This is just her entitlement here . We are not here to cater to SD who doesn't give a crap about anyone in this home and is happy to put her own sister who is 5 at risk just so she can sleep on the bottom bunk! I cater to the people who live in this home because I see what happened when we cater to SD who doesn't. I am just sooo pissed and DH was not even putting his foot down to her nonsense ! I didn't hear him talk to her the harsh way he speaks to our kids or even my BS13 ! So we will have a serious talk when she leaves! That brat in not gonna come into this home and make demands as if she comes several times a year . Also she took the phone case off a spare phone we use sometimes for the kids , when I brought it up to DH he didn't say anything about it! I just want her to leave! Usually she would leave early tomorrow but since it's MiL birthday tomorrow SD will probably stick around, I know SD wouldn't want to miss her butt being kissed by MIL and SIL