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Submitted by young but wise on Wed, 02/13/2013 - 1:36pm

Just out of curiosity, I was wondering how many of you are Facebook friends with BM. How many of your SO's are FB friends with BM?

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Submitted by young but wise on Wed, 02/13/2013 - 1:38pm

SO and I share a facebook and for the past 3.5 years we have been FB friends. Then about 6 months ago we all got in a huge battle and BM deleted us. She sends us a friend request at least once a week and we keep deleting it. SO and I agreed that we would not ever accept it because we really don't want her to see what is going on in our life. Is it wrong to see it this way?

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Submitted by fedup13 on Thu, 02/28/2013 - 11:19pm

Same here. Absolutely not. I have zero contact with the bitch and have her blocked. DH does not have FB anymore either but if he did he would have her blocked as well.

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Submitted by LittlePanda on Wed, 02/13/2013 - 1:41pm

Husband is friends with BM. We use it to spy on her and laugh at her, though, being in jail, she doesn't post. She tried to friend me..I was like...UH HELLLL NO!

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Submitted by young but wise on Wed, 02/13/2013 - 1:41pm

We also have made sure we have no mutual friends on there. The only one that refuses to listen to us is my MIL. She accepts her request every damn time. Says it is the only way for her to keep up on her grandson... who we have 6 days a week anyways so I don't know why she blames that. She is still friends with BM and that drives me nuts because she tells her things I don't want her to know and she also plays middle man when I would rather BM have to man up and deal with her own problems.

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Submitted by young but wise on Wed, 02/13/2013 - 1:43pm

It was nice when we were friends just because it was nice to spy on her with. we have a ton of screen shots that we could use against her. I guess I will just have to deal with not being able to creep on her page. Was nice when we knew the reasons for her behaviors at times.

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Submitted by twopines on Wed, 02/13/2013 - 1:45pm

Dear heavens, no! As soon as DH found out BM created an account last year, he blocked her so he wouldn't see her comments on skids' posts. I blocked her on DD's and my accounts as well. I don't have any problems with her, and I don't want to tempt fate.

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Submitted by Redsonya on Wed, 02/13/2013 - 1:54pm

SD18 lets BM use her account all the time. I know that for sure because BM posted nasty comments on my Pinterest page using SD18's account on accident (she forgot to log out and log back in as herself). When SD18 friended me earlier this year, I knew it was prompted by BM so she could see what DH and I were up to (happened right after DH blocked her from cell, home phone, and email). I friended SD18 because I have tons of close friends who constantly check in om me, plan fun things to do, and I use Facebook to post happy events and comments, not moan about my life, like BM. I know it drives her crazy!

I have SS13's facebook account log in info since he uses my computer. I check in on BM's Facebook page once in a while for a laugh. My favorite one so far is a recent photo of her in a bikini at the outdoor spa near here. Holy cow! That woman has gained a good 40 pounds of blubber. Not just getting bigger - absolutely rolls of cellulite. I love that photo, lol. I've been on a strict exercise regimen and it seems like BM is gaining every pound I lose.

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Submitted by Jsmom on Wed, 02/13/2013 - 1:57pm

Hell no on BM. Defriended SD16 when all the drama went down with her. I have her and BM blocked as well. Even made DH defriend a girl from HS, because she friended me and I was okay with it, until I asked who she was and it turned out to be BM's step sister.

She is blocked now as well. Why invite the drama into our lives?

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Submitted by bearcub25 on Wed, 02/13/2013 - 1:58pm

Nope. BM must have went thru DSO friends list and friended ALOT of his friends....some even admitted they didn't know her but knew it was his wife or exwife.

I have BM and all skids blocked, even though SD lives with us. When SD and I were friends, BM would get on SD acct and then chat with me or others posing as SD. I pointed this out to SD and SD changes her pw every month and won't let BM have it.

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Submitted by Sweetnothings on Wed, 02/13/2013 - 2:00pm

DH and I do not use FakeBook, no way. We had an old account years ago when sd22 was at her worst, but it is not active in any way. They are all on it ( BM, sap bf, sd, younger skid, ) so we do not really want all that crazy in our lives. I mean, they have multiple accounts on there and use fake names to kinda verbally prey on people, IYKWIM ....... It's really, really creepy and when I found out about it like four or so years ago I didn't even tell DH ( the right choice at the time as he was really being emotionally battered by sd's behaviour , it would have been another nail in the coffin, etc..... )

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Submitted by GoldenGoose on Wed, 02/13/2013 - 2:43pm

DH and I used to be friends with BM1 on FB, along with her, DH. Then she started using it as a tool to send passive-aggresive messages. We both decided that we were spending too much time deciphering her messages. Done. We unfriended and blocked her and her husband. While we were at it, we locked down most of the SD's access to DH's page including photos. The troll (BM2), does not have FB. I no longer have any interest in seeing anything she has to say. I used to take the approach that "forewarned is forearmed." But, to be honest, I realized that anything written FB is pretty much BS and I wasn't really being forewarned about anything other than viewing the pollution of her every day life. We didn'tneed to have that tie to that woman. I feel like we are free from all of the drama and the lovey messages between BM1, my SIL, SD, BIL, and MIL.

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Submitted by BSgoinon on Wed, 02/13/2013 - 3:08pm

I do not have a FB, neither does DH. We do have a "fanpage" for our Travel Ball team, which BM has "liked". I am not sure if we can see her page via the fan page, I am the admin and the only one that accesses that page. I haven't tried to see her page and don't have any desire to. Although she did "like" a post on our page the other day... so I have seen her profile pic. And I really really really want to ask her if she "Got a free bowl of soup with that hat". Ahhhh... Rodney Dangerfield. Gotta love him Wink But seriously, Paddington Bear called and he wants his hat back.

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Submitted by whatwasithinkin on Wed, 02/13/2013 - 5:31pm

No and hell no. And any family member even brothers and sisters were assed to delete bm and if they didnt agree (dh is one of 9 some did battle him on this) he deleted them

She is on block to her on fb we dont exsist