she wont do this in front of me, but her xmil watches ss while dh goes to work (we can't afford daycare). we asked for BM to watch him, but haha, that's a joke. well, the FEW times he's gone to get ss, and bm actually awake (she doesn't work, hasn't in YEARS). well, she flirts with him every damn time. playfully hitting him, giving him looks and yesterday had the ovaries to ask him to come back after he got home (we live on opposite sides of town) to take her to the er (she's a hypocondriact). dh has told her to stop and brushes it off, but i'm seriously bothered by it. he told her with the er visit request "if you are that bad, call 911"

i would say something to her, but i KNOW that's what she wants. for me to give her the slightest thought that i doubt his loyalty to me. not to mention it'll just make things escelate if i do.

this woman is a classic example of a professional child support and welfare collector. and will ride any disco stick available to her. :sick:

ok vent over

let me also add her xmil asked dh if he would testify for them in court (getting subpeonia'd) he told them only if you will for me. she did take the baby with her but dad and his mom (i guess) threatened to go after her through dhs or something like that, so she (with the baby) came back and is just playing it cool until they decide to make a move.