So, I knew this about bm before we ever moved and shortly after meeting her but she is all about the show. She is one of the most two faced people I have ever met and she never ceases t annoy me. I looked at her fb (Dh is convinced she's up to something regardless of how many times I've told him she's too lazy to do anything) which I know I shouldn't have because what I found there was just plain ridiculous. She posts of fb whining about how she misses ss4 so much and telling everyone that he'll only be gone for a little bit before their 'wonderful family will be all together again'. That bitch hadn't called him in two days and then she has the lady balls to call tonight and ask ss4 why HE didn't call HER. maybe it's because you're his mother and should try to maintain a relationship with him even though he is 2500 miles away. This is also the same woman that when she was putting him in the car to come to us, knowing full well it could be a very long time before she saw him again if EVER, she just missed him on the cheek and walked away. No tears, no long goodbyes, no nothing. And I realize that people handle grief different ways but that is just weird!!