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keepthefaith313's picture

Submitted by keepthefaith313 on Mon, 12/02/2013 - 5:02pm

Okay so this is mostly a vent session but its full of juicy gossip

My issue is best summed up by I HATE the relationship between SO and BM. Its like no one ever moved on. When I first met him he said he had to go get something to eat and ran out to yes get something to eat but also pick up her flipping shoes she forgot somewhere!!!!!

He gives her $1000!!!!!!! For Xmas to spend on all 7 of her children one of which is his :jawdrop:

Endless carting her around to and effing fro

Then that bitch contacts me on Facebook trying to argue with me ugh I ignored it. Also her trying to get him to break up with me. There's a previous post.

To put a cherry on top of this cake she has had another man for 5 years!! Wtf! She has other baby daddies she doesn't ask all this help from.

I'm at a point where I just dont know if the juice is worth the squeeze. To his credit he has taken a big step back but I'm just so pissed.

This is not specific I know but I need to blow off steam before I say things to people that'll get me in trouble

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bearcub25's picture

Submitted by bearcub25 on Mon, 12/02/2013 - 5:45pm

He is the only baby daddy she asks bc the others are smart enough to tell her to figure it out herself.

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Submitted by HadEnoughx5 on Mon, 12/02/2013 - 5:50pm

Oh my, she goes to him because she knows who will give her the sugar. She's no dummy, but she's making an ass out of him. She'll toss him when he no longer gives in, until then, enjoy the ride or bail.

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Submitted by SadFairy on Mon, 12/02/2013 - 6:09pm

This definitely doesn't sound like a man who is done with his previous relationship and ready to move on. I would be questioning if the two of them don't still have some type of relationship, even if it's not physical. I haven't read the previous post, but if he is aware that she is actively trying to break the two of you up, and continues to socialize with her, this is extremely disrespectful to your relationship. He's letting you know where you stand. I'm so frustrated for you!!

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Submitted by BadNanny on Mon, 12/02/2013 - 9:08pm

Yeah, I dated one like that- omg the errands he was running for this chick! Even found her a house in the same street after they broke up! She moved this guy in as "her roommate" and he would say "she charges him rent, doesn't live at her place for free", like he was delusional that she had moved on... I lost respect for him after a while. Omg the stories... Yeah, move on

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Tue, 12/03/2013 - 9:31am

Yeah, my DH was pretty bad (so I thought) with BM2 when I first met him. Here are some of the things he did,that is until we started getting serious and I was like dude, this is ridiculous. You either put her in her place (which is your past) or you can put me in your past. I refuse to play second class citizen to someone you claim to HATE.

-DH paid for Karate lessons for SS, he ALSO paid for lessons for BM2s other son with some other guy.

-BM2 would call all the time for stupid shit (Oh hey, did you see that furniture is on sale at such and such? Oh hey, I got some pistachios at the store, would you want some?)

-DH went to visit friends around Christmas time and let BM2 drive his truck the whole week he was gone and then had HER pick him up at the airport when he got back.

These are the major infractions off the top of my head. Thankfully my DH stepped up and decided to stop that madness and I would say he is pretty good now. He would NEVER do any of those things now, but it wasn't an overnight fix and there were a lot of battles and hurt feelings in between.