ok so heres the jist: SO's child is 10. His brain and balls resided in a jar that belonged to BM. BM cheated A LOT. after his child was born BM had 3 other kids while with SO all of them not his. One she told him was his for about a year then said that child wasn't his, and it isn't. SO now got brains and balls back and is thinking well too much adds up here with this one child that's supposed to be mine maybe I should have a dna test. There are a lot of factors like him being out of town 9 months before this kid was born. ANYWAY, SO wants a dna test.

my first reaction is good riddance BM!!

BUT...since SO and I have been together the PAS has been unreal SD10 hates me doesn't want to do anything with her father says to her father she wants to come over and do things then refuses once shes with BM

im at my effing breaking point
I have posted about BM problems on here in the past and you all have been so awesome
the thing is I haven't even dealt with SO child a whole lot

BM and SO do not have a CO in place at the moment and its such a shit show in which she manipulates degrades (you all know the shit these crazy people say) and his balls reside in her purse!!

I moved to a small town and met SO don't really know anyone else and BM has flapped her gums to people so now people think I am controlling my SO, which im not she is.

UGH SO needs to go to court in the worst way and I cant wait because even though the men do get screwed in court it would actually benefit him and put BM in her place.

SO works seasonal so during a couple months of the year he only has limited days to see SC. Any way today has just been so much unnecessary drama. I feel so bad for SC and SO. So im gonna give you guys the scoop and I hope I can articulate this so that the full amount of crazy is translated.