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overthere's picture

Has anybody moved out because of stepkids and had it work? I have been living apart from my husband since July of last year. I feel as if we are growing apart. I don't see how it will continue to work. I told my husband I want to be a family and he just says he is sorry.

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winter80's picture

You should come first to your husband. I'm sorry for you that he doesn't see it that way, you're his wife. The best blended families happen when the husband makes it clear to the children that his wife comes first and that anything done to her is like doing something to him.

New second wife-step-mom's picture

Can you try to move back in together? If not, I don't think it will ever work. If he isn't willing to at least give it another try then he is probably done with the relationship but hasn't said so to you.

overthere's picture

You are married and living apart? At lease I am not alone. He says he knows how his daughter feels about me and I about her. That is why he doesn't want to.

positivelyfourthstreet's picture

Is it really the skids?

See I used to blame skids but it's really dad's fault for not doing the right thing.

It took me so long to see the truth. I suppose I didn't want to see it.

I am accused of tearing the family apart when he does absolutely nothing to make us a family.