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zerostepdrama's picture

Okay so MSD has this apartment. Its $760 a month. That is a lot of money for an apartment in our area for an 18year old with a baby who is making $10 an hour. Plus the $700 in disability for the baby. Not sure if she is getting gov't assistance. She will get it, if she qualifies for sure. Also not sure what is going on with CS, since she has only been on her own for about 3 weeks. Prior she was living with BF and his family.

When she was living with BF she didnt have to pay any bills. Yet she got her car repoed the other day.

Here is my fear. If she couldnt even pay her car payment when she was living rent free how in the world is she going to be pay for her apartment?

Just based off the caculations I did real quick in my head, money is going to be tight.

She has no car. Not sure how she is going to get to work and the baby to the babysitter. DH mentioned that he was going to give her one of his junkers but not sure what came of that as its still sitting at our house.

She graduates HS in 2 weeks. She is supposed to go to college for nursing. I dont think there she will be able to do it all. Just based off of a priority and maturity level.

I feel like its only going to be a few more months before we are back in the same situation that we were just in where she is without a place to stay.

I hardly doubt that she will be able to keep this place. Not trying to be negative. I HOPE and PRAY that she can keep her own place, so its one less thing I have to worry about.

I just dont think its looking too good already.

DH better not be stupid enough to try to convince me to let her live with us. And I dont want to have to go through all the drama again.

Oh and when she sent DH a text to let him know they took her car she is all like "daddy,,, cant you help me???" :sick:

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whatwasithinkin's picture

I often wonder how many year we will have to live in here of hearing our spouse ask, beg, plead or even insinuate tht question of a place to live.

zerostepdrama's picture

If she was a kind person and trust worthy I would have no real issues with her staying at our house.

But she has stolen. She has lied. She is a bitch to me. She is entitled.

And most importantly. Our house is not baby proof or in any way safe for a baby. One that is crawling around at that.

DH is never home and does nothing to help around the house (cooking, cleaning, etc). I am not going to be stuck dealing with his daughter and baby. period.dot.

I am nervous though. I know this issue will pop up again... I just know it...