Taking the summer bet....

Haven't posted much, not since December really things have been "ok" in snoopy land but, dropped the SDs off last night with BM for her summer visit and she tried jerking DH around as usual. She wanted to keep the girls longer and DH said NO. She bitched bc she "don't get my tiiimmmeee" well bit h if you would follow the damn orders maybe you would get more time. DH is FINALLY doing what they atty said which is to play by HIS rules and not hers. BM won't call the girls as she's been ordered to do, refuses to Skype them (per orders) but when she wants "her time" she thinks she damn well better get it. Our court case is on hold bc she refuses to sign papers or communicate with the LCM. So, taking bets on how long she calls us to come get the girls, as she has a history of pulling the "they're too expensive" crap.....

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Pretty much. Apparently

Pretty much. Apparently buying beer and partying is WAY more important than feeding them

Snoopy-we can set BM up with

Snoopy-we can set BM up with my Ex-H. That mfer is $8K behind in child support but posts pictures on FB of him at the beach with different "ladies" all the time and him doing karaoke at the bar. It is really all about priorities lol

Mine is $15K behind and posts

Mine is $15K behind and posts FB photos of all the remodeling he is doing to his house and the expensive toys he is getting his son (he had two more kids with two more women after my son).

No Stacy, DH has full

No Stacy, DH has full custody. BM gets visits. Every year she knows she will have the girls and every year she plays the "too expensive" card. She pays no CS, and her and her GF like to drink and party.

Currently, we can't push the

Currently, we can't push the CS until the current case is settled, which is currently on hold bc BM refuses to communicate with the courts, or the mediator. After that is settled then we will be pushing for CS

How can she refuse to

How can she refuse to communicate with the court? What is the current case? I would have the judge order her to appear and if she doesnt warrant for her arrest!

Her atty is part of the

Her atty is part of the reason. Twlling her she doesnt have to do anything The mediator has tried calling her and she has changed her number (again) she lives in another state. And when she is ordered to appear she either 1) makes some excuse 2) or plays that she "didnt know she had court" or 3) we get to court and her atty plays the "I didn't KNOW my client needed an interpreter (BM is deaf) and it gets continued. And the current case is her visitation and parenting time. She took us back demanding full custody and CS and the judge laughed at her. Then she demanded more parenting time, and the judge sent it to mediation. Them she wanted EVERY lomg weekend which equated to EVERY holiday and DH said no. She refuses to follow orders as it is now so it's all on her ass. She thinks DH will give in to her but he won't

You should still be able to

You should still be able to file a counter petition to further limit her visitation due to a pattern of missed visits missed calls etc and establish child support. It can all be petitioned on the case you have open now! And if the mediator is unsuccessful then ask the judge to dismiss her petition for failure to communicate with mediator?