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BM is like Herpes...she will never stop fucking up my life.

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About a month ago..I may have blogged...SD twisted her ankle. SD was with BM so BM offered to take her to doc. We go to a place that is open on weekends...this was a Sunday. DSO told BM to take her there bc the copay was cheaper and they had her ins info on file. NOPE, BM takes her to ER, that doesn't have her info on file bc we go to the freaking clinic.

This happened twice more in the past 3 weeks. DSO is getting bills in the mail every other day now that has this on the envelope.

BMs Name
Our address
BMs town. This works bc her town is on the outskirts of my town with same zip code (IDK why).

Then SD throws her 2nd phone in 10 months at BM and busts it on Sunday (I blogged on this).
Past 2 days SD is chatting about what she needs for school and just won't stop. No apology for throwing the phone though.
I explained to her twice....HER DAD had medical tests done last week, so no work, no pay and doctor bills. SD has doc bills and copays from 4 ER/doc visits since end of June.

I work 3 12 hour shifts a week. I watch my gkids on my days off and spent past 2 weeks helping my DS with his wedding last Saturday. I was looking forward to having a distress day on Thursday.

SD just informed me that BM is housesitting in another town and I have to keep her Thurs and Fri. I have appts Friday that I can't cancel. BM has known she was housesitting for 2 months bc I facebook stalk her and she was talking about her little mini vacation coming up.

I fucking hate BM.

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DSO is custodial so I can't make her keep her kid. Yea, she will have to stay home or go to her friends house when I have to handle my shit.

SD has her softball picnic Thursday nite and DSO is taking her. He can't run to the other town and he can't make BM do jack shit bc she is a lazy, selfish bitch.

It is more the 'I'm pretty pissed right now'. I just needed to vent or I would lose my shit on DSO when there isn't anything either of us can do.

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I know all this. I put my foot down a long time ago with DSO taking care of his own kid. I will be fair to him that he does everything he can to take care of his own bc he knows what all I do.

I also need him to work to pay his share of the bills bc if he can't then I have to pay his share. He just found out he has to have another test done next week.

I just told him that this shit needs to end with his EX and her not helping financially or any other way with her own kid. I have no trouble putting them out of the house like I did both SS' bc I own the house. Believe me, I'm not a stupid young woman that needs a man. He needs me way more than I need him.