DH has EOWE with the skids. In the CO, he is to drop skids off Sunday evening at 7:00. A month ago, BM sent him a text at about 6:45 (he was about to walk out the door) 'I'm not home, I'll let you know when I am and you can bring the girls'. Um, ok, stupid cunt. Whatever. TWO HOURS go by, nothing. He texted her once or twice like, um, hey, just wondering if you have an idea about what time you will be home, etc... No response. He finally called her at 930, 'oh, I was about to call you, yeah, I'm on my way home.' Ugh. DH and I have to get up at ass o'clock in the morning. I start work at 630, him at 7. I want to be IN BED by 10, not have him out driving around to suit her whims.

The next visitation. 'I have to work Sunday evening, I might need you to drop them off a little late'. This was brought up around 6pm on Sunday. Again, 9:50, he had to call her to see what in the fuck she was up to. 'Oh, I'm on my way home, you can bring them now'. I was livid, skids were falling asleep, just a bad situation all around.

Yesterday, Sunday. Mid afternoon, I told him, you better call that cunt and find out what her plans are tonight regarding drop off. He called her (woke her up, hehe) said he was planning on dropping skids off at 730, to give her a little more time to get back from work (she cleans offices). She said between 730-8 would be ok, but she would 'let him know if she needed more time'. He said no, you cannot do that again where you call me ten minutes before to tell me to wait until 10pm. School starts in a week, they're tired, they need to be on a normal schedule. She hung up on him.

We heard nothing from her the rest of the evening, and at 730, he left with the skids. There was come construction traffic, so he got there at 7:55. She wasn't home. He called her, and she was all bent out of shape, 'well I'm just finishing up, so I'll be there in 10 minutes'. He said she pulled up, put skids in her car, and left again. So she clearly had something else she needed/wanted to do, and had NO plans of telling him until she was done, most likely around 930-10 per her usual. I have to say I was really proud of him for essentially forcing her to get her shit together, but I just see this to be a continuing problem. Is there anything that can be done? Will the police file a report if we call it in, so we can officially document it? He will text her, but she just calls, or won't respond, so it's hard to get stuff in writing from her. Next time I swear I want to call the police and tell them she abandoned her kids, but that would just be a whooooole level of crazy I'm not ready to delve into at the moment, lol.

Any ideas?