I NEVER Thought This Would Happen To ME!

OH, yeah, I've read about it happening to other SMs, but not to me. BM IS COPYING MY LOOK!! After ELEVEN YEARS!!

She is growing out her hair, wears the same type/colour glasses as I am, too!

She really looks NOTHING like me. She is freakishly tall and big. I am short and small. She has auburn/red hair. I have very dark brown hair.

All her recent photos on FB show her sporting 50 extra lbs, glasses like mine and hair like mine. Same hair cut and all! She's no doubt PAYING someone to cut it that way (I do my own with a crea clip).

And in other news, she is now sending YSS (11 1/2) to Camp Rock Star along with already graduated from HS with a 1.7 GPA OSS!! She is SOOOOO proud of her "gingers."

Funny thing--all the smoochy, woochy posts that Big Bucks Stepdaddy used to post on their anniversary is conspicuous by absence. NO posts on either of their sites! Just a week old photo of BBStepdad sitting next to the BM with quite a bit of distance between them on his site. On her site, photos of her "gingers" at Camp Rock Star and a MOTY blog "What Every Teen Boy Needs From His Mom" :barf: :barf:

Most recent post from BBStepdaddy says "I need Jazz to cope"

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Lol. Pathetic. Is this to

Lol. Pathetic. Is this to get the attention of new men or an attempt to catch your husband's eye? I was told by a very wise woman who had been there that every time BM has a love interest, things will get better for us. But don't get used to it. Every time that new love interest doesn't work out, she's going back to her pseudo husband, DH. The communications will get too personal again. The has happened twice for me.

She's so enmeshed with her

She's so enmeshed with her biological extrusions that there is no room for anyone else in her life.

I too am a BM but I realized that my children from the very start were NOT one of my appendages. Of course, the BM is YET to cut the umbilical cord from HER BM.

The BM here is so enmeshed

The BM here is so enmeshed with her spawn that she dresses THEM like her. BM is a 35-year-old Goth. She wears nothing but black, tons of eye liner and a perpetual scowl. SS15 and exSS9 are dressed pretty much all in black at her house. If it isn't black, it's got skulls or dragons all over it. She never cuts their hair. I'm pretty sure she's planning on getting SS15 a tattoo when he turns 16. SS15 doesn't even WANT that look, but he allows her to style him like that anyway. Nothing wrong with the Goth look per se, but she's trying to make her kids mini-mes.