So BM who wants everything for nothing, doesn't do for her kids unless court ordered, hauls us to court constantly, bad mouths DH and I to skids, and basically lives to try to make life miserable over here also expects us to give her benefits. After all this bitch has done to us over the last four years I'm at my end and have had enough. It pisses me off when I don't see DH being as aggressive about stopping the nonsense.

The most recent issue...school pictures. Now, two years ago we paid for a disc that gives you full copyrights and you can print as many prints in as many different sizes and styles as you want for one low fee. Which is less than a package and certainly less than what we and BM would pay combined. So we asked her "hey, want to split the cost of the disc and we can each take it and print what we need?" She agrees...the disks somehow end up at her place first, and NO SHE NEVER PAID A DIME. So last year she asks "are we doing the same thing?" Sure we will...and we get the discs and NO I WASNT GIVING THAT USELESS POS AN EFFING DIME! We're even. Right? Ha ha ha. Sports pics come and she knows about it, has the ability to order, we order magnets...she gets the package and takes half. Hell no those are ours. "I didn't get any!" Too effing bad mudfence, that's your problem. You want to give us some cash we will share otherwise, go to the website of the photographer...you can order some yourself. Of course she never did. School pics come around, she asks about them. We are ordering the disc. Okay great...uh no, not unless you are paying half. "But I paid last year!" Yeah and we did the year before. Bite me. "Use the CS money you get!" Yeah that whopping $84/month for two teen boys...and that's not to pay for YOUR expenses bitch! So I tell DH we will just order a package. He says to order the disc. That we have lots of pics and it is less expensive even if it is just us. True. Okay. But I am tired of financing that wicked wench and she will NOT be using the disc unless she pays half! This half is a total of $20. Yes I know it's $20 but I'm tired of financing her! She's supposed to pay half of sport signup (agreed to this in mediation with Friend of the Court) so her half is $400. We gave her $100 of raffle tickets that we can sell to "make" some of the money back because it's included in the registration. So DH and I paid $400 last year. She sold $100 of tickets. Kept the effing money. Applied $40...yes FORTY dollars to the sign up. I get collection calls in January that $360 is still owed. Send a text to BM stating it is still outstanding please take care of it here is the contact info. Does she? No. DH says to her what did you do with the $100 from selling tickets? "I had things I wanted to get". Yes WANTED, not NEEDED. He put his foot down and made her pay the $100 because we would have sold them and decreased our cost but we were trying to help her out. I got a call TWO WEEKS PRIOR to this year's sign up...right around picture time so yes I was disgruntled, that the skids still had $260 that needed to be paid prior to fall registration. GRRRR!!! Yes I paid it and promptly told the registrar that this year my bios are to be a SEPERATE account because I was having nothing to do with the bullshit between DH and BM.

Well...where do you suppose YSS's picture disc ended up? That's right folks at BM's!! She's had it for three weeks. I'm getting pics together to give to family members and DH says "we don't have YSS yet". My response was we should. Crazy Train was never supposed to get them. She's had them for three weeks. I asked SS to bring them home or ask BM to drop it off, it hasn't happened, you've known about it. "I'll text her". Then tells me well that's not going anywhere. She told me she hasn't printed them yet and where are OSS's? BITCH you didn't pay for them. They legally belong to ME as the check to pay for them was drawn from MY account and I SIGNED THE MOTHER EFFING CHECK.

So now I'm just pissed. Part of me wants to send her an email or text saying "you are in possession of property that belongs to ME, I would like it returned immediately. If not I will pursue further action". What action? Who the F knows...I don't know if there is any action I can take. Part of me wants to just print out the other kids and hand out the pics and when DH says something tell him you didn't rectify the situation and secure what rightfully belongs to us or get payment from BM therefore when or IF you get YSS pics you can make the prints you want and distribute as you see fit. But it burns my ass that yet again she is getting away with shit...and DH isn't more firm about it.

It's $20. I know it's petty. But it's the whole principle and that she JUST KEEPS MOTHER EFFING DOING IT AND GETTING AWAY WITH IT!

"Crack"...okay, going to drink this delicious Shandy and wait for your advice, scoldings, judgements.