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DH is not the SDs dad??? When did that happen?

CompletelyPuzzled's picture

Submitted by CompletelyPuzzled on Thu, 01/08/2015 - 7:54am

Okay ladies. A little background. BM is one of those moms that forces her daughters to refer to their SF as dad. It annoys DH, but the SF has been around for a while so he has learned to deal. And then yesterday, DH made a call to the school to find out about what the school plans to do about SD11 missing 22 days of school so far this year.

The receptionist at the school told DH that she couldn't tell him anything because he isn't listed on the contact form. DH's response, "I am their father. And, I was on the forms last year."

Apparently, BM listed the SF as their father. DH had to fax the school a copy of the CO to have it changed. The school wasn't happy with BM.

She thinks she got one over on DH, but we are documenting everything for our court case.

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Gabriels Mom's picture

Submitted by Gabriels Mom on Thu, 01/08/2015 - 8:16am

Cuntalotapus did that. Listed her DH as the father (he was only her BF then) DH went to pick up SS for an appt and they wouldnt let him get him. DH got pissed went home got the CO, birth certificate AND DSs state ID. (We got it for sports) He took copies of the forms, in her handwriting, (She always says she didn't do it or blames someone else) showing that she listed her BF as the dad and DH no where on it and the school allowed DH to change the forms.

The funny thing is since the state ID had our address, the school determined that our address was SS's LEGAL address and therefore not eligible to go to that school (Thank goodness that school is terrible)and they sent his paperwork over to the super awesome school in our district at the end of the year (which was like 2 months after the incident) and a letter to BM and DH saying that his paperwork was sent to XX school because the state ID showed our address. She tried to fight it but she couldn't explain to the mediator WHY she didn't want SS to go to a better school so the mediator advised her to drop it that if she brings that BS into court she'd lose.

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Submitted by steplife on Thu, 01/08/2015 - 9:07am

Our BM did this with SD when she was little in daycare. She signed SD up without DHs knowledge and listed her boyfriends information as the father. She used the daycare on her 50% time only, but one day DH had to go pick up SD from there and he was not listed anywhere. Not as father or on the pickup or emergency list. We had to walk back out and leave her there. The daycare had no knowledge that DH even existed and had to have his lawyer send a letter and copy of the CO. BM was not reprimanded in any way. I wish more places would ask for a copy of court paperwork when these crazy BMs say there is no father.