SM "Merit Badge" How Many of You Have Had Ye Olde Phoney CPS Charges By The BM/Skids?
And if so, was that the last straw for you?
Was it the last straw for your DH as well or did he go right back to "camel" mode?
In my case the Skids and the BM were complicit in the fake-o CPS charges. Dominatrix, at the time eight years old, claimed that Chef "split her lip" read: permanently chapped lips due to biting her nails like the BM does.
"Inappropriate work duties" (had all three skids pick up twigs for 20 minutes in the back yard)
"Inappropriate punishment" Chef put Dominatrix in time out and scolded her for kicking Prince Hygiene in the face.
To me this was the culmination of three years of the BM's PASing and Guilty/Disney Dadding at that point in time. Of course I saw it for what it was and it was the last straw for me. Chef? Not so much. The oldest two soon PASed out for good after that and the youngest, Prince Hygiene, played Damien for the next three years after that. The Guilty/Daddy crap continued right on as usual.
Chef was like "Well Prince was TOO YOUNG to know what was going on (with the CPS report) and "He's DIFFERENT! He won't be like the older two!" read: become mombots. And that is exactly what Prince did--PASing out at an even YOUNGER age than the older two (stb 7)
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Repeatedly. DH has his head
Repeatedly. DH has his head firmly embedded in the sand regarding what they are "capable" of. They've even pushed charges against him and still he doesn't get it.
It was enough for me the first time. I don't trust any skid any time for any reason.
This is the only part of
This is the only part of StepLife that I fear. I don't want CPS to have to come into my home to evaluate me ESPECIALLY on made up bull by crazy BM. But I kind of expect it to happen...she fits the bill for all of the other BMs on here that have done it.
This happened to me, but it
This happened to me, but it wasn't SD. It was BM. She gets delusional sometimes (does not take her psychotropic meds) and accused us of having no food/being an unsuitable environment.
HOW EVER, SD was not involved. I'm not even sure she knows it happens. Nothing further came of it (CPS just said something like "we have to investigate these claims").
At the time I was piiiiissssed. But here's the thing: BM is legitimately sick in the head. She genuinely believed (and I can even see how it got twisted-came from our snacking rules). If I genuinely believed my child was in danger, I'd do the same thing.
Pray for me! Hopefully she stays on the damn meds for a few years. It's much easier when she's on.
In my case ALL THREE skids
In my case ALL THREE skids said they "lied to make Mommy happy." These are the same skids at ages 8, 6 and 3 who JUDGED Chef for "getting a divorce because only BAAADD people get divorced."
Yeah the PAS in your
Yeah the PAS in your situation is out of control.
BM trumped up false charges
BM trumped up false charges against my DH and I. She even brought MY son into it saying DH hit him too. And ME! That my DH is abusive towards me. LMAO!!! When my friends heard that they all said "Yeah right. First, hubby wouldn't touch you. Second, if he did, he'd be the one sporting a black eye and bruises. You'd nail him!"
None of it true. She got the youngest skid to not tell the "whole story" and just say yeah my dad punched my arm and that's how I got this bruise. The oldest skid had nothing to do with it.
The bruise actually came due to a wrestling match between DH, SS12, SS15 and BS8.
Count me in. Accusations
Count me in.
Accusations included DH shooting a cat with a shotgun and making YSD get up from the picnic table where they were visiting in my front yard to pick up the dead cat.
DH beating SS16 in the back with a 2X4
DH cussing at both SDs
MSD had bruises all over her
It was an open and shut case.
I still don't understand why
I still don't understand why our BM DIDN'T pull the trigger like this. I mean, she tried pretty much everything else in the book to make our lives miserable...
I've dealt with this. After
I've dealt with this. After BM found out I was pregnant, she took an accidental situation from about 6 months earlier and turned it into something that made me come off like a complete monster. I had to take time off work to meet with the social worker from CPS. Luckily, she had also pulled SD out of school to ask her about it and she got the real story from her. She also said it was obvious what BM had done and that she would be flagged in the system and wouldn't be taken seriously if she made allegations against me again.
Been there, done that, still
Been there, done that, still doing it. Give me the badge!!!!!
We're in the middle of an investigation now, thanks to SSociopath15 and his BFF BM scheming together to make up atrocious lies about DH and I. I'm talking atrocious. I obviously can't go into detail right now.
The kid is PASed out now, but is never, ever, ever welcome in our home again. He's a POS like his so-called mother.
I'll give everyone the dirt
I'll give everyone the dirt once it's all over but yeah, put the two sociopaths )SS and BM) together, and they can come up with quite the stories. And they're so convincing. Borderlines are comsummate actors.
Thank you so much for calling
Thank you so much for calling your SS a sociopath as I called my SKs the same on babycenter and got bashed like there was no tomorrow. My POS SKs teamed up with their fellow POS BM and put a retalatory/false CPS call on me A MONTH after we called CPS on her, to try to have my bio son (2) taken from me! I confronted and the level of lies and twisting with ZERO REMORSE makes me want them gone!
After the crazy with eldest,
After the crazy with eldest, the other two are on warning. The next to falsely accuse us again.... is not welcome in this house again. I don't think we're done by any means.