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BS's weekend with his dad- Update on my last blog

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Mon, 03/02/2015 - 11:09am

Update to this blog:

http://www.steptalk.org/node/212400

BS did go with his dad. I met with him Saturday morning. Ex was not dressed in funeral clothes which I thought was a little strange considering Ex told me he had a funeral to attend that morning. He even had me dress BS in funeral clothes. And when I mentioned that BS didnt have funeral shoes (He only has tennis shoes and snow boots right now) Ex said "dont worry about it, I will get him some."

When BS came home I did ask BS if he went to a funeral. BS said "No and it was a celebration of life, just a little party."

Either way though BS and Ex didnt go.

Still not sure why Ex was trying to get out of seeing BS. It's so not like him.

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Mon, 03/02/2015 - 12:16pm

It's possible but considering he doesnt see his son very often, it would be very dissapointing to learn that he is trying to bail on him for a GF.

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Mon, 03/02/2015 - 12:11pm

Possible. But to want to cancel plans with his son, makes it seem like it was pretty important for him to attend.

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Submitted by AllySkoo on Mon, 03/02/2015 - 11:42am

I thought at the time that it sounded like he just wanted to get out of Friday night for some reason. I'll bet Mary is right - he's got a new gf.

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Mon, 03/02/2015 - 12:14pm

"Drill the kid"? LOL-

I said "BS how was the funeral?" that is all.

I dont demand my Ex to inform me of his plans.

He "excercises" his right to see his kid every 6-8 weeks, if that. So when he has plans to have BS and then cancels them for a funeral, then I am going to question what is going on.

And this isnt me trying to figure out what is going on in his life. It's a follow up in response to my original post on this subject.

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Mon, 03/02/2015 - 12:26pm

Seriously monkey what is your problem? You keep poking at me regarding the breastfeeding blog and now this.

THANK YOU for FINALLY letting me see the light in all my evil BM ways! }:)

God Forbid I bring up a subject, have meaningful conversation with other posters about it and then provide an update about it without being accused of being a crazy BM.

And who cares if I am curious as to what is going in my Ex's life all of a sudden that he wants to skip visiation with our son. Hell yeah it's something that is going to make me go :?

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Mon, 03/02/2015 - 12:44pm

What exactly is "BMish"?

Yes I am the BM to my son. It is one of my most important role considering I am the one doing 99% of raising my BS. Does that make me evil because my Ex and I aren't together anymore?

And yes there are times that I have to actually question what is going on in my Ex's life. No different when we were together and I had to question him on some of the things that he was doing that affected BS. No different then questioning DH on some of the things he tries to parent my BS on. No different then my Ex asking questions to me about how I am parenting.

I'm not sure why on this board, if a BM asks a simple question about her ex or inquires amongst friends on here about her current situation, why that makes me "that BM".

What is "that BM" anyways?

I am just a mother, trying to raise my son, mostly by myself and raise him to be a good person. That is all.