Mini wives who grow up to marry men with daughters

I don't have an SD (thank God!) but I am intrigued by the mini wives I read about on here. Why, if they are that clingy about dadddeeeeee do some of them go on to marry men who have daughters from previous relationships? What is going on there? Did they just not realize what they were doing or do they consider themselves immune?

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Yeah, but you're probably not

Yeah, but you're probably not sitting right next to him on the couch saying, 'Daadddeee, I wuuuvv you!'.

Calling out for someone is not the same as constantly saying 'Daaaddeeee' or, 'moommmmiee' when they're right next to you.

Absolutely nothing. I was

Absolutely nothing.

I was just pointing out that there is a difference between calling out to someone and talking to them when they are right there. (See my second sentence.)

A poster above didn't make this distinction.

I don't care how obnoxious or

I don't care how obnoxious or clinging a SD is - the real problem is a man who enables that shit. A man with half a brain and at least one ball will not be pussy whipped by his daughter.

pussy whipped "(1) adjective

pussy whipped

"(1) adjective - situation whereupon a male is undeniably at the mercy of his high-maintenence girlfriend & answers to her every beck and call, usually followed by the reprioritizing of girlfriend over friends, family, school, food, water, and air."

" (2)adjective
The definition of pussy whipped refers to being completely under the control of a woman and doing everything that person says, usually to refer to men who do everything their wives or girlfriends say.

An example of pussy whipped is a man who buys his wife everything she wants, comes home when she tells him to and carries her purse and coat for her everywhere they go."

I think you must have another definition of "pussy whipped".

Actually, the term pussy =

Actually, the term pussy = female. No doubt because all females have pu$$y but, I digress. LOL.

Pussy whipped and dickmotived

Pussy whipped and dickmotived both mean the sex is so good that the man/women will do anything demanded/requested.

People do not use those two terms to describe someone who isn't in a sexual relationship with the person calling the shots.

I guess it depends on whether

I guess it depends on whether or not you sexualize it.

Pussy = vagina
Pussy = female
Pussy = kitty

Personally, I prefer the third option.

I just asked 2 men what their

I just asked 2 men what their definition of PW is. This is what they said...

#1: A man who is weak and pathetic and will do whatever his woman tells him to do out of fear of her making his life more miserable than what it already is.

#2: A man who is so mesmerized by his girl's sexual abilities that he would do anything that she asks.

As an aside, my brother told me that PW men don't do whatever for the sex because if his woman is that controlling, he probably ain't getting IT anyway, no matter how he tries. He's just scared to not do something she tells him.

My SD says hen pecked because hens are always female (obviously) and will batter him to death until they get what they want. Then he kissed my mom and said, 'not you honey.'

That's the consensus I came up with over here. So..... infer from it what you will. LMAO!

"I think you must have

"I think you must have another definition of "pussy whipped"."

I was thinking the same thing, lol. Funny thing is, if he was pussy whipped by his wife/GF, some of the ladies here would find THAT completely disgusting but, if he's pussy whipped by his daughter.... somehow, that A-OK. LMAO.

Pussy whipped is a term to

Pussy whipped is a term to describe: spineless, butt-kissing, insecure men who give in to females to keep the peace. It can be used with a sexual connotation but, that isn't written in stone.

If you think about it, both

If you think about it, both the word pussy AND whipped could be describing HIM! LOL.

Well now, this site is all

Well now, this site is all about the education isn't it???? LOL.

What happened to 'She's got

What happened to 'She's got him wrapped around his little finger'??

That sounds much safer, lol.

I don't necessarily agree

I don't necessarily agree with the terminology but, it is interesting that it has so many differing connotations. Plus, I stand by my original statement. If he was hen pecked by his wife, it would be viewed as revolting but, it's perfectly acceptable to be hen pecked by his daughter? Um, no. LOL.

LOL! You're too funny. I

LOL! You're too funny.

I think she means that people would look badly upon a woman treating her man that way, so why wouldn't they feel the same if it was his daughter?

Wait, I think I see your point...women and kids are not the same.

I just say, "You're a

I just say, "You're a gullible dumbass!"

Or has him eating out of the

Or has him eating out of the palm of her hand

What should she call her

What should she call her father? I'm 44 and still call mine Daddy.

My sister and I are 46 and 47

My sister and I are 46 and 47 and we still call our dad daddy and our mother mommy. It's the norm here. Every single black (American and Caribbean), Puerto Rican and Dominican man and woman I know here in NYC call their parents mommy and daddy. I know senior citizens who use both terms.

Yes, they say papi not daddy.

Yes, they say papi not daddy. But they do say mommy.

It's possible they won't have

It's possible they won't have any problems at all. They may not grow into women who are afraid to speak up. They may not be afraid to walk away from a man who allows his kid to behave in a manner she doesn't agree with.

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LOL!

I think the context gets lost

I think the context gets lost in many of the posts about mini-wives here, and so it is 'perceived' to be jealousy on the part of SM's, by some posters. It isn't necessarily the term 'daddy' so much as it is the tone with which it's used, by children, (especially adult children.) Nothing wrong with calling your dad, daddy. It's big in the south. Personally, whenever I hear a grown ass woman doing that sing-songy daaaddddyyy, it makes my skin crawl. That was the case before I ever became a SM. I remember a few friends of mine doing it as teeneagers and I was always skeeved out by it. I should add that ALL of the friends used that tone when actively manipulating the parent, by their own admission.

As for the 'physical affection' issue.... there is no way in hell that any child (after a certain age) should be crawling all over, hanging all over, playing kissy-kissy, or tickle-tickle constantly with their parents. There is such a thing as being age appropriately affectionate. Sad to say that too many children (especially CODs) are being infantilized by supposedly well meaning parents.

When a child or even a kidult actively inserts themselves in to ANY and ALL interactions between their parent and everyone else, that is a child raised without boundaries. It should not be tolerated. That isn't a jealousy issue. It's a poor parenting issue.

Twist it, whitewash it, spin it 7 ways to Sunday. It is, what it is!

Well, I don't ever remember

Well, I don't ever remember seeing a 'full grown adult looking 10 yr old.' Of course in this day and age, I have seen quite a few hoochie-momma looking 10 yr olds. Again, poor parenting..... which seems to be the rule now and not the exception. Perhaps that is the real problem. Too many sheep and not enough shepherds. Or would that be too many children and not enough parents??????? Hmmm.....

ABSOLUTELY

I'm in NYC Mommy and daddy

I'm in NYC
Mommy and daddy or papi are the norm here. All of my family and friends in SC,NC and VA say momma instead of mommy. Ironically, all of friends that grew up in Brooklyn, then moved south still say mommy. Most of their kids do as well.

Southern here! My parents are

Southern here! My parents are Momma and Daddy. DH calls his the same things, altho his father passed several years ago.

I can't help but wonder why

I can't help but wonder why women stay with men like that. Any other man who allowed those things to go on would be called a perv. But because the sicko is SM's husband and running far away from said sicko is out of the question, the blame is placed on the kid.

I will never understand expecting kids to be more responsible than adults.

"I will never understand

"I will never understand expecting kids to be more responsible than adults."

I will never understand why kids are given adult status, allowed to make adult decisions, get in between the adults in the household, etc. but, when the SM objects and would like changes to occur, SHE becomes the petty, bitter, jealous one.

I guess we all have things to ponder. LOL.

I was just pondering a few

I was just pondering a few thoughts out loud, lol.

Tommar - I'm sure there ARE

Tommar - I'm sure there ARE SMs out there that get jealous. If that's the case, they are probably just a bit insecure and immature yet.

Personally, I can't imagine being jealous of an 11 year old (or younger, or older for that matter).

I won't accept being lumped into that 95%, or whatever it was, of 'jealous' SMs that someone stated as being the case on this site. That's a HUGE assumption!

I know YOU wouldn't. I was

I know YOU wouldn't.

I was referring to another poster whose name I shall refrain from using so as not to get 'reported'.

I most definitely wouldn't

I most definitely wouldn't use the word 'jealous' to describe how I feel when my SD pulls a mini-wife act!!! Lolol!! :sick:

It's usually adult SDs who don't think there is anything wrong with this type of behavior.

Oh, BTW, I'm an adult SD, but never pulled any kind of mini-wife shit myself, so I don't feel the need to defend against it. }:)

It's a bit of an assumption to think that the majority of SMs on this site are 'jealous' when they complain about the shit that some of these kids pull.

I would be really surprised

I would be really surprised if she didn't. I always knew my place and only wanted my dad to be happy.

Both sides of this debate

Both sides of this debate know exactly what the other side is saying but y'all just seem to want to fight about it.

Oh, sorry.... "debating".

Oh, sorry.... "debating". LOL!

Jelly tots, the breakfast of

Jelly tots, the breakfast of SK's in South Africa.

https://www.google.co.za/search?q=jelly+tots+south+africa&biw=1419&bih=9...

It's such a wonderful breakfast, MIL gives it to Chucky regularly. Because every child with his developmental problems should start the day with a little hand full of cane sugar covered jelly.

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