Today I spent most of the morning cleaning the house and doing laundry and H helped. Then he had to go into work for a couple of hours. When he got home we started to do some yard work, we had several bad wind storms here a few days ago and a couple of trees came down. We came inside to take a little break and I told him that one of the things that pisses me off is there we are working our butts off and sd is flopped on her bed playing video games. I calmly explained that he says everyone has to contribute and work as a family yet he lets her lay around doing nothing. He's always talking about fair is fair and I said this isn't fair to me or him. That he is teaching her that someone else will always do the work when she doesn't want to and it isn't right. He agreed and made her get off her butt and go pick up fallen limbs. She did a crappy job and he says (??) he will make her do it over tomorrow. I'm not holding my breath. If it happens I'll be amazed. I'll let you all know how it goes. It just seems that for every step forward it's 3 back.