Sorry if this sound mean but I am so relieved to have one night without mood of SD13 - she is with us FT and NEVER goes to BM EVER - so dad asked if I would like to go b-day shopping for son9 and then go to dinner with our BK's. YEAH; one night of no fighting, yelling, screaming, talking rudely.....

I have tried so hard this week; the comments are just so rude and not needed;
To her saying to daddy "why is dinner so late all the time; I cannot wait this long to eat!" Well when you work till 5 unlike your BM - what do you expect!!
and when I do get it to her on time and tell her what it is; I get "REALLY - REALLY - I don't even like that!!"
(Mind you these are just examples; you get the point) some are too long and bad to place on here!!

I would not allow my kids to talk like this to me; but if I say something daddy will say I am rude or I am just being petty; it has been almost 11 Years of this; EVERYTHING bothers me now!!

I am just looking forward to a nice relaxing night; that thank you...
Don't you ever feel that way; a much needed, deserved break!!!
Have a wonderful evening....