MY STEPSON HAD HIS FIRST KISS & MY HUSBAND THINKS THAT I SHOULD NOT BE AROUND WHEN HE TALKS TO HIM ABOUT IT BECAUSE HIS CO-WORKERS SAID THAT BOYS DONT LIKE THEIR MOMS TO KNOW,THEY FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE WITH DADS.HIS GF IMMEDIATELY TOLD HER MOM BUT MY S.S. LIED TO US ABOUT.I NOW FEEL LIKE I SHOULD NOT BE CONCERNED W/HIS SOCIAL LIFE BECAUSE EVERYTIME WE ASK HIM NOT TO DO SOMETHING HE DOES THE OPPOSITE.I FEEL STEPSON THINKS HE IS GROWN WHEN IT COMES TO HIS PERSONAL LIFE. I DONT WANT MY HUSBAND TO HANDLE IT BECAUSE HE WILL LET HIM DO WHATEVER, HES A BOY SO OH WELL.HE'S TALKING ABOUT GETTING HIM CONDOMS..WE JUST FOUND OUT THIS MORNING.IM JUST SAD THAT IF WE GIVE IN THAT WILL PUT IN HIS HEAD THAT ITS OK TO DO MORE KISSING AND THAT WILL LEAD TO SEX EVENTUALLY AND HIS GF'S MOM IS IN SUPPORT OF THEM BEING "IN LOVE" THEY R 14!!!! FOR CHRIST SAKE. I TOLD MY HUBBY THAT I GIVE UP I DONT CARE...I DONT MEAN THAT OF COURSE.BUT IM IN THE HOUSE WITH 3 MALES AND ITS DRIVING ME CRAZY.TO ME THIS IS A SERIOUS ISSUE,MY S.S HAS ALOT GOING FOR HIM AND WE DEFINATELY DONT WANT HIM TO GET OFF TRACK.OH AND MY HUBBY IS LIKE ...WELL WHEN I WAS HIS AGE I WAS DOING MORE THEN JUST KISSING ,IT JUST SEEMS LIKE A DOUBLE STANDARD NOW IF HE WERE TO GET HER PREGNANT THEN WHAT??? THEY HAVE ONLY BEEN GF/BF FOR 3WKS AND THEY R SOOOO IN LOVE,I FEEL THE R DEFINATELY MOVING TOO FAST.CAN SUM ONE PLEASE GIVE ME SUM ADVICE,CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM OR TELL ME WHAT IM DOING WRONG.THX IN ADVANCE:)