BM is adamant about never driving, paying, or moving her butt in any way for the skids if she hasn't badgered DH to do it first. While in court last week, DH gave her a check and the registration paperwork for a car that he bought SD. She walked over to us totally angry in the courtroom and said that he needed to go register the car and give her the registration papers since she has three kids at home (ummm, yeah, ages 17 and 12, plus your 14 year old nephew) and DH doesn't have any kids. DH and I have a 2 year old daughter, but I guess she doesn't count? I was sitting right next to DH during this.

BM has also started a bunch of nonsense whenever DH is working late and she is supposed to drop the kids off at our house. She always complains that it is supposed to be visitation with HIM and he won't be there. Ummm, yes, it is his visitation, I am his wife, and this is our house. None of your business if they are with JUST me for two hours until he gets home.

So tired of being treated like me and my DD2 are roommates with DH or don't exist at all. BM acts as though they are still the ones married and have a family, but he is just separated from them for a while or something? Anyone else have this problem?