So I posted last week that I had a double date thanks to my FDH with the BM and her BF. It was a night mare. We of course new that she was going to ask us to continue with the spouse support (not going to happen we won in court!) she tried this horrible sob story about only having $250.00 a week to live off of AFTER bills. HAHA if you cant live off of $250 a week after paying rent, cell phone, cable, auto insurance (we are paying her car payment) then there is something wrong with you. So I decided to break it down for her I laid out my FDH pay check and his bill (cutting the rent and groceries in half for my share) guess what he has $90 a week after everything. She just looked at me and said what about you chipping in. I did everything I could not to punch her out, my paycheck is of no concern to her, and if she is worried about money then she should get a job after all she is 27 years old and has NEVER worked a day in her life.

The whole night was like her own little pity party. She wined and even started to cry about us getting spouse support removed. She said that she is going to have to start to sell her Gucci, and Prada purses, yes I said purses she has a collection she buys one every other month. She started it 6 years ago. She is self centered and doesn’t care about anyone but herself.

FDH brought up some of his concerns that we have noticed in the girls. FSD6 tells us all the time that all mommy does is make babies with *****. Yes she is 6 and thanks to BM she knows where babies come from. She knows all the details! It made me sick when she started talking about it. Oh and FSD4 plays with her self, she says that she is just like mommy and were not talking about a little bit of touching. We have documented everything that they do that concerns us. I am worried bout the girls. All BM said was that they are kids and that they are just making it up. Well considering the fact that she lives in her parent’s basement and sleeps in the same bed as her BF 3 feet from the girls I really don’t think that the girls are making it up.

The whole thing just made me sick she lied through her teeth about our concerns with the girls and she isn’t bothered by it at all. I wish that I could just video tape her basement and take it to a judge, she shouldn’t have the girls full time I no that she is the mother but the stuff that she pulls and does isn’t right and isn’t a healthy environment for the girls to grow up in. I know that she is the mother but wow no responsibility what so ever.