My husband got another call from my stepsons GF's father. You know the 14 year old girlfriend. These people aren't stupid either, they don't ask me they ask my husband. I told them my feelings on it, and they ask again. This is like when kids play the parents.

Now my husband is asking me about it again. I really think he has run to the end of caring about what our boys do. All he can do is dream about when they will both move out. I have to say that when the day comes, it will be nice. Here's reality. Our 19 year old just started college in a 2 year program, and our 17 year old (the one with the 14 year old GF) has one more year in high school and then it's on to a 7 year long university program. He can't really give up already in caring about what they do.

How can these people not see that this is a recipe for disaster?

And to top this all off I just saw my physician yesterday and I may have suffered sudden total hearing loss in my right ear. She sure didn't give me any false hope and told me that it could be permenant. Then she set an appointment up with a specialist. I have had loud ringing in me ears since Saturday night. Coffee with Baileys, I just may deserve it.

Say a little prayer for me.