CHILD SERVICES
Let me start off by saying that Child Services is a F**king joke. They came to our house this morning looking for Dh, whom we all know is offshore, because about 3 weeks ago Dh and ss were playing with a training collar that is for our 1 year old schnauzer. They were EACH seeing how for they could go with it shocking them before they would flench. Now the doggy day care & our vet has assured me that it is only as strong as a 9 volt battery, nothing to do any harm to my dog,ss,orDh. So CS came and was asking me all kinds of questions that I don't know the answers to. Then proceed to tell me that if the actions continue when new baby is born they can take away MY CHILD!!! So then I got really mad, this was my statement: you are gooing to try to take away my child ? Where were you when my ss had no running water, was living in a car, was being dropprf off any and everywhere. He is going into the third grade for the 3rd time has a anger problem, and is in trouble with the law for NOT going to school. Where were you then. This stupid ass had the nerve to tell me that that was not serious complaints!! How do you like that these were not serious complaints but my husband and ss playing with a training collar is. Go figure!!! I told Dh that if CS wants my child because of something stupid that was between a father and a son then me and my child would go somewhere LESS STRESSFUL!!!!! he said he would take care of it when he got home, he will be home in about 2 days. If he can not get this off my back then I guess me and this unborn child will be doing it on our own!! Sorry so long I just needed to VENT!!
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Ugh that is horrible.
I would advise you to tell your DH what I tell my STBH. even if it SEEMS like innocent play, he is now in a situation where everything he says and does must be filtered through the net of Child Services. In our case, they are not involved, yet. But the threat has been launched by BM every time she doesnt get her way. So we now take precautions to prevent ANY WAY for unsubstantiated claims to be made.
I for one am not going down the drain with these people if they can't get their Sh*t together. Don't you do it either.
How utterly STUPID
I can't believe the nerve of that stupid friggin' agency. I STILL am furious with them for openly refusing to investigate BM just because they THINK BF and BM are "in the midst of a custody battle". WTF? WHO CARES? Even if they were, that wouldn't CHANGE the fact that SS is living in a shit hole!
I am so sorry that you had to go through this. I love how complaints made by the MOTHER are seen as serious but complaints ABOUT the mother are scoffed at over and over. UGH
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I am Sorry
I don't know what to say. How is your DH and SS playing together constitute anything YOU did wrong???? Threatening to take away your unborn baby is so wrong!!! Why would anyone put a pregnant woman under that kind of stress!!!! I dont' get it. BTW in my state not going to school is against the law and the parents can be punished. Sounds like your caseworker is a power hungry idiot!
Our case worker
is a complete idiot. Dh came home today and is on his way to the court house as we speak to go talk to our lawyer. HE IS NOT HAPPY!!!He is going file papers AGAIN for full custody, maybe this time someone will actually listen to what he has to say. With the school Bm has been to court 2 times for ss not going to school, you would think after the first time someone would notice that she was in there twice!! After that he said he is marching over to Bm & useless husband number 3's house to tell them that they are complete and uder idiots if they think for one minute that the threats will make not want this baby. And that she will just need to get over herself because they have been over for 10 years, she has married 3 times, this is his second chance to be a daddy. He left when ss was 9 months old, he did not get to see him until he was 4 years old. SS and dh missed all the great bonding. So we will see how that goes I will keep ya'll posted on the out come!!
Child Services suck....
Plain and simple... they are INCOMPETENT. I wonder where the people that work for Child Services come from.... We are going through a very hard time due to the idiots that work for CPS in our hometown.... we reported abuse, we took pictures of the abuse, we had a doctor's report... but all BM had to do was point to us and we are suspects? Are you serious?
I would have been so pissed with that jerk for his comment about taking your baby.... Good luck buddy... just try!
You know, even though we are supposedly suspects for the abuse of my SS.... CPS left my own two kids in our care.... not that I want them taken of course, but HELLO.... IF we were a danger do they not have a duty to protect my children as well?
They make no sense at all.
I feel your pain...
DH and I were investigated a couple of months ago for BS getting smacked in the mouth for spitting in DH face. This is how bad it was exh was so worried about the incident he didn't even take the time to go fill out the papers he called and had the papers mailed to him to fill out the complaint and mailed them back WTF if I thought my child was being abused there is no way I would have waited for papaers to come in the mail espically since I only live 15 min away. CPS came and did there little investigation to find what everyone already new the boy were fine. Can they not tell when it is false why put kids through all the interviews and crap to confuse them. They want to talk about abuse how about the mental strees they put my kids through I classify that as abuse.
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