What the hell is he thinking?
This is my third entry this week; and I can't stress it enough how glad I am to have bumped into this site.
To start off, now that the BM has gotten served, she decides to start acting like a mother, or at least pretend to be (trust me I'm not buying it for a second). My BF tells me she wants to pick him up this weekend, she wants her son to live with her..the whole nine yards. Total 360 change. I'm not going to point out that she's bipolar, b/c that would just be a lame excuse for her to get away with whatever she wants. Shes not bipolar, she just has no shame. Allow me to point out the fact that this woman left her son and fell off the planet for over a month (with some guy she was having a fling with), when he was only 2 years old. She left the house and left her son with his father (my BF now). What's more jawdropping for me, is the fact that he was stupid enough to forgive and allow her to come back home. According to him of course, it was for the "sake of his son". Trust me I'm not buying that for one second. Not only was that the worse move he could ever make, but it only gave her an open avenue to do get away with murder in the future (which she did).
So now I'm infuriated for the following reasons. First off, she now decides to tone it down and not be as rude, angry and irrational as she has been in the past months prior to getting served. To top this off, she now claims she wants her son to live with her. He's beginning to soften up and I fear that he'll drop the case in court and decide to settle things with her in another manner. I have told him to stick to his plans and proceed with the legalities for the custody battle. Not only does she not care for her son, but she will continue to do whatever she wants if he drops the case, and she gets away with it. It seems there are never consequences associated to anything this woman does. One way or another, she always does whatever she wants, and its just not fair.
To add to my irritation, this is all my BF talks, thinks, eats and sleeps about. Its SO annoying; Ive decided to share my frustrations with readers on this site than with him. Whenever I give him a suggestion of how to deal with her, he says I'm doing it out of jealousy and I'm interfering with his battle.
Its just so pathetic to see a 31 year old man being manipulated by a cynical, ruthless, lying, cheating, absent parent, that she is.
Then he wonders why she acts the way she does....its very clear....she knows she can get away with it.
As usual..thanks for reading if you did!
- AnnoyedGirl's blog
- Log in or register to post comments
Comments
Take a deep breath sweetie,
Take a deep breath sweetie, I know this part sucks really bad, I think most parents want to believe that (especially closer to the beginning of this battle) the other parent will come to their senses and they do give more opportunity than we as the significant others feel reasonable- Try to remember our SO have atleast at one time seen something decent in these women- he will figure it out soon enough on his own. Honestly if you are with him i don't see how he claims this is his battle- that would really urk me too. Its all in the learning time- it takes time for this type of family to find out how its supposed to operate and it was hard and took years for us to figure it out and I haven't heard of anyone ever just jumping into their role and having a great "fit" yet, just vent away, and hope its over soon.
There is no reaon where logic does not exist
I agree, beathe, this was my
I agree, beathe, this was my life dad in and out for 4 years, she would manipulate him all she could. He just NOW put his foot down. You just be the bigger woman, and do not feed into it, that is what she wants
****The best exercise is walking down the aisle****