and it went well! He promised to work on his "guilty dad" crap..the only thing I disagreed on was becoming more involved as a mother figure with FSS...I'm sick of being blamed for his shortcomings by BM, and now it's so obvious by her last email she feels very threatened by me or it's just plain jealousy..."She is NOT taking my place in your life! She's only sleeping in OUR bed, sitting on OUR couch and eating at OUR table!" O....K....first of all I have never talked to this woman, because I feel she's not mature enough to handle this situation...I AM....I feel like if I became anymore involved than I already am she'll just make more waves and I'm stressed out from her psychotic attitude the way it is..she almost scares me...who knows what she's really capable of??

Anyway, the therapist gave us some really good advice and next week fiancee and my daughter are going to therapy together on their own to try and improve relations between them...we don't have issues with my ex like we have with BM...she's just one big nightmare!