BM texts that " her 14yr old son is "screaming at her and his 17 yr old sister like a madman" and "Can you come get him ?? " well I heard the text but husband did not.. So this morning we find it and he is like" well if that wicked witch and mini witch(daughter)would not gang up on him he wouldnt". I asked him why he did not reply that in his return text? He wrote back "sorry I did not see this text til now" He is totally checked out when it comes to dealing with his X. I don't blame him at all. He ignores most of her texts about inane crap. But I had to laugh at the fact that she figured he just ignored her demands again..she was stewing in it HAHAH!! She is a social worker at a school...maybe she should be able to handle her own issues with the kids discipline but nope! Her son recently was expelled briefly for " violating the safe school act" by threatening to stab a mate with scissors... of course his dad says it was the other kids fault or some such crap.
update I gave my husband the news that I am moving out of the house and getting a smaller place..he can come or not.. but I wont be dealing with them half of every week any longer...in fact I d pay extra to NOT deal with them.. for my peace of mind..I am no longer putting up with their BS 50%of every week. Especially with two parents not dealing with or teaching them to be decent people. In addition I am feeling as though his son is at risk for lashing out physically..so I want distance. My husband decided to support the move after all and is expecting to change custody and pay support for the next few years.. wish me luck..
The xwife and those two brats can kiss my sweet ass if they think they'll influence my life in the future.. I am minimizing it now..o but get this husband asks me to attend Easter dinner w him and two kids sunday.. don't know what to do as you know they dont stay in the kitchen at home if I am in room and driving 1+hour and being with them at the holiday sounds deafeningly quiet and like a huge strain.. if I go I only hope it causes them stress rather than just me.. they made it this way with their carrying the moms hatefulness to my home... screw em.. I may go just to ruin their day..lol of not if I want peace without them.. husband does not understand and chalks it up to them "just being kids" please my kids were always polite and kind.. kids know howto be just not his kids.... their assholes.