ok so sd 21 yrs old has never been raised by dh. he was not allowed to see her for years due to his ex not liking the women in his life at the time. so years would go by and he would not see his daughter and then wham he is getting a call and is allowed to see her again for a year or two and then it stops again .. and this is the way it was from sd age 4-16.. on a year off two on a year off three.. its crazy! i was not around during that time( thank God!!) ... but to reply to some of the comments.. he has not answered her calls but he has answered her texts .. he stated " if you think i am going to answer your calls or speak to you after the nasty rude messages you left about me and everyone else you got me messed up with someone else" she stated in a text back that he needs to answer his phone and his response was what she needs is to have her mouth busted for the way she has been talking to and about everyone and so that got her going again.. " your wife is a slut, needs to keep her legs closed cause she does not need any more kids, you and your wife and her kids are sickening and your whole life is sickening, i will come to your house and f#$% everyone there up, you don't want me to come over there and if i do you will get your ass beat and so will your bitch ass wife".. and i could go on but you all get the point.. he stated come on over and bring bail money cause your ass will go to jail and i am done playing your games. ...... she did not call for a week and then it started with the " daddy its me" type calls.. i have not answered or responded to any of it .. but i am truly at my wits end with this girl! and yeah my bio daughters and sons have deleted and blocked her from all of their social media pages... and so have my husband and myself.. i do not tell him to answer nor to just let it ring.. i have told him lately that i could give a rats ass less what she does or who she does it with and that she can write me off as any help needed no matter what is going on.. i am done with her. and if and when she does decide to get some balls and show up at my house there will be some issues and if i beat her ass then so be it.. i am not one to usually just stay quiet when someone is talking about me or ranting and throwing my name out there so for me to not say a word back to her is amazing on my part.. normally i would have already jumped in her ass and told her what i thought but since its his daughter i have not .. but like i said i am over it and done with her cry baby shit..her mother is always referring to her current husband as the bank and telling my sd not to piss him off or the money will go away and they don't want that so that kind of tells you about the type of kid i am dealing with.. the sd was arrested a few years ago for weed.. the sd paid it off and got a very expensive attorney so that they would be able to keep it off her record.. after her court date her bio mom and grandma took her on a $1500 shopping spree for being able to walk out with no charges on her record??? wtf?? really??? ohhh ok... and that is how she has been raised..so now you can all see what i am and have been dealing with.. although the bm does not get into it with bd i am sure she is running her mouth at her house...