Hi everyone.
I'm here to vent about my ss7.
He's here on Fridays, Saturdays, and sundays every other week.
First off...every friday after school when we pick him up he smells soooo bad. He has body odor...it started last summer when he was six. I got him a deodorant and his dad uses it on h8m when he's here. However, it's obvious his mother doesn't do anything about his BO issues so hubby gave ss7 a deodorant to take home with him. ...it's obvious his mom doesn't care because every time we pick him up from school he obviously hasn't used any deodorant.
His dad really tried to get him to take a bath last night but the kid refused and he hasn't taken a bath today either.
When he's here his father let's him pick out his own clothes to wear and I swear the kid has been wearing the same pants for 6 months...everytime he's here, friday, saturday, and sunday.
By the way. ..these pants are waay to big on him. They are sooo baggy, the pockets stick out and are torn. He looks like a homeless kid and it is so embarrassing when people come over.
On Saturday his dad goes to work and ss7 is left with me. By the time I wake up it looks like we had a break in. The apartment is a total mess. On top of everything he never washes his hands and leaves black hand prints on walls and cupboards. Every Saturday he finishes all the juice in the fridge and the whole box of ritz(200g).
He never sits like a normal person...he's always either sitting on his head with his legs up in the sky or some other weird position. He walks on my white bed sheets with his dirty feet...I'm cleaning after him all the time when he's here. What a nightmare. Why doesn't his mom teach him something about cleanliness. I've complained to his dad before but he thinks his son is still a baby and actually puts him under the same category as our 8 month old!
He says..."He's just a baby!"

I forgot to mention every time he eats food ends up all over the floor.
This totally ruins my weekends. I have such a busy schedule. I have a baby to make special baby food for and take care of and clean after, I'm back in school and have homework I should be doing on the weekend. I'm so tired all the time and I hardly get to sleep. Weekends are also the only time hubby and I can spend together b7t when ss7 is here we can't even have a conversation or sit beside eachother because he is stuck to his dad like glue and follows him to the bathroom and everywhere else. I had enough.
I dream of getting my own place that I can go away to on weekends.
Being a step mom is the worst thing that ever happened to me. Hubby pays so much child support it isn't fair. His ex has a good government j9b and she's married to someone who also has a job. We only have one income...it's not fsir because my baby still doesn't have crib but ss7 has so many brand name clothes his mom gets with the child support many. She took 2 vacations last year all the way over seas and we can't even go visit my parents in another city.
I think I have come to the conclusion that love for a man is not worth it but the problem is I now have a child so it's a little late.
Did I mention that I'm only 25 and my sex life is also miserable because on weekdays hubby and I hardly see eachother and now we only do the deed on weekends that stepson isn't here which is twice a month. I'm only 25 but I feel like I'm 50 thanks to hubbys past.