Disengagement my turn!!
You know I never heard of PAS until I came to Steptalk. Never used the word "disengagement" until I came to this site. Never thought that these words would pertain to me!
SS (16) told DH that he can't stand to be around STUKNAZ and Stuknaz has nothing to do with him. Because BM and DH made him not Stuknaz!
Had the nerve to say that BM doesn't like STUKNAZ and he doesn't either!! How childish!!
I know this is BM poisoning this boy against me, this is nothing new. However, is sill stings a little bit.
I told FH that I will disengage from him but not the younger one(14). He has no issues with me(not yet anyway)
I will no longer be available to take or pick up older stepson (16) from practices, drive him to a friends etc..
This kid is old enough to know better considering we had a half way decent relationship and now that he has been with BM for 17 weeks now he has issues with me?? He can't stand to be around me??? I told DH well i guess he won't be staying here and staying at BM's for good, because I'm not going anywhere! Well piss on you little boy! Errrrr
Good
SS needs to learn consequences, i.e. if you abuse someone, they aren't available to help you. I, for one, am sick of narcissistic bullies who abuse on one hand and have the other hand out for favors. I'm sure his mother is just like that.
Yep
the apple doesnt fall far from the tree. and to make it sooo bad this kid had the audacity to say this to DH in a rext message! He needs to learn how to spell!
"And this too shall pass..."