HD said he recently called SD36 and told her he was “disappointed” in HER, that she would not be able to visit our home for a very long time so he would be visiting on his own. He made the call in another room so I couldn't hear. We have been married for 20 years and in the past, when he has had to confront his daughter he has been VERY bothered by it, even to the point of crying. But this time it is like he is TOO agreeable with me and it gives me a weird feeling. After he told me about the phone call, I replied, “She will not be able to come into the house until I get a personal apology for screaming at me and an assurance from her that there will be no more immature, sadistic behavior, and THOSE are my terms”, his expression changed. Am I being paranoid? Have any of you had this experience?