I'm so over BM and her little stunts.
BM moved out of her parents house two nights ago and into her boyfriend's grandparents house with him. Mind you, she's only been dating this guy for like 2 days. She's dated him prior to this, but total time is like 3 months if that. That's not the irritating part, though. She moved out with her younger son (11 months) and LEFT SS3 with her parents. Her mother confirmed it on FB this morning. I am so livid right now!! DH is pretty aggravated as well.
We're in the middle of waiting on her veridct for custody. We're TEN MONTHS in. BM traveled about 1200 miles to the state our custody trial was in (she previously ran with SS) and didn't even show up. She spent the entire two weeks she was in town chasing down her newest baby daddy because she WANTED him to meet his son. So, she used the excuse that she FORGOT our trial date. Now, she's LEFT him and taken her younger son with her. I cannot wrap my head around WHY you would move somewhere if both of your children couldn't go.
I just keep thinking about how he must be feeling and it breaks my heart. I mean, I'm sure he's used to BM being gone because she leaves him ALL THE TIME to party and hang out with people, but now she's taken his little brother and their stuff. I'm sure he's kinda confused and it probably doesn't affect him, yet, but come on! UGH! I'm SO aggravated right now. Seriously.
Are you certain the judge
Are you certain the judge hasn't given his answer yet? I would be lighting a fire under his bottom. The longer things go unchanged the harder it is to get a court to change them.
Yes I'm sure. Our attorney
Yes I'm sure. Our attorney just called a few weeks ago. Still nothing and his secretary gave the impression that this is normal for them. Considering the small town and him being the only juvenile judge, I guess I can see that, but 10 months? She noted the file and said they'd be in contact with us if anything changed and now this. I'm so frustrated with it all.