I have a step daughter who is five and a husband I love very much. The kid I know cares deep down inside and she does mind sometimes but I possibly thing she is a little add. She can't be still she can't concentrate she is behind in learning for her age. She doesnt flush the toilet she doesnt eat and when she does eat she plays in her food. Alot of the things she does remind me of an animal. She runs through the house and is sometimes uncontrollable. I am sure she would never hurt a person and is a very loving individual. Although somedays she does trap the cat in rooms and hold him hostage and yell and stuff she does pull the heads off of her barbies and babys. He is getting mad at me because I am nervous about some of these things. We are just starting to set the nursery up which was previously our den and kinda like a walk through room you can walk through it and get to the other bedrooms but there are two ways to go. Considering we have the furniture up and stuff I have started keeping the doors up clearly just to keep the cat out and keep anything from hurting the furniture and stuff. She started to walk through the room and I told him to explain to her to go the other way through the living room b/c we don't need to walk through the baby room. He does not understand why he is like well when the baby gets here during the day the doors are always going to be open and that started the convo of how i only wanted one door open because i didnt want everyone running trhough the nursery and messing with the baby and stuff. I then proceeded to tell him we need ot purchase a baby gate for the other door. and he was like why the baby can't walk when it is born. and I told him I would just feel better b/c it would create a little bit of barrier in between sd and the baby when we were sleeping ( i know she can crawl over it) but just for my piece of mind in case she sleep walks. He then gets furious and tells me I dont trust her and stuff I told him you can't trust kids with little babys he told me that was ridiculous. I am sorry I dont want to leave my baby alone with a five year old kid. I am sorry that makes me nervous. I am sorry I am protective over my baby. i mean i dont mind if she plays with it and holds it and whatever else but not unsupervised. She sleep walks and I am just afraid she will sleep walk in there and get the baby. She used to get up in the middle of the night and turn the stove on and stuff. He told me to ask other people with two kids b/c I swas being irrational b/c she wasnt mine. i just want the best for my baby. Do yall agree?