So here we are at the eleventh hour and not knowing if bm is getting sd4 after school tomorrow. Bm is going away this weekend so cant take sd for the weekend which she normally does especially if SO is working (cus really why should she be here with me) she tells him I want to see sd during the week though before I go away. So since SO is working tomorrow he said why don't u get her after school and keep her for the night....no response. So now I have told my kids I will be late getting them cus I have to get sd from the bus. Watch now she will respond and I will need to change MY plans this is bs I told SO from now on plans need to be set out the week before or they are not happening or they can figure it out and leave me the fuck out of it