So DH has 3 kids Sd8 sd5 sd6. Sd8 is not biologically DH's. It is a known fact by all. She basically comes to our house with his kids for something to do and so BM has a free babysitter. Well the child is the spawn of satan... Just like BM, very demanding, feeling entitled to everything, disrespectful, mean and abusive to DH's kids. So after about a year of dealing with her shit DH has finally put his foot down and she will not coming on our weekends anymore! WooHoo I am so excited to have that brat out of my hair. My SD's absolutely hate it when she is there too. They have been begging us to leave her behind. They will be thrilled. DH and I took all of her toys and what not's out of their room to bring to BM. We are just done with it. Her BF is in prison... yeah they are all real winners! But Dh is not going to suffer trying to make up for that any longer.

On another note sd5 and sd6 who have been begging to live with us for 2 years now, broke down and told BM last night they don't even want to live with her! I cry every time those babies leave me. They live off chicken nuggets and french fries (never a home cooked meal) she is too busy spoiling the brat that she doesnt pay them any attention. They are always sick because her section 8 housing is covered in germs and mold. So living with us would be best for them but we do not have enough to ever win a case. I am just thrilled they told her how they feel. She called DH upset over it. She thinks I am trying to replace her. I keep saying if you would be a better mom there would be no need to replace you. But score for the good guys!