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Submitted by dpowers on Tue, 01/22/2008 - 12:20pm

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i was just wondering if this was me or is this the norm...would you marry a man or woman with children if you ever left this relationship???? my answer is NO WAY EVEN IF HIS KIDS ARE GROWN....i think the grown ones are worse than the little ones.....

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Submitted by sarahbernheart on Tue, 01/22/2008 - 12:27pm

I know if my BF and I are no longer together I would NOT date another guy who has kids. Or kids that do not live in another COUNTRY heehee!

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Submitted by need2vent on Tue, 01/22/2008 - 1:10pm

the grown ones are worse and they come with little ones too! LOL They are just now really starting to write about grown Skids and I am eating up each bit of info.

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Submitted by dpowers on Tue, 01/22/2008 - 4:02pm

That is the best answer yet!!!!!!!!!!!!lol

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Submitted by Sarah101 on Tue, 01/22/2008 - 4:06pm

If I am to be hated I want the chance to EARN that hate instead of just having it lavished upon me! Wink

You think you'll be rid of them when they're 18? Think again.

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Submitted by Monica on Tue, 01/22/2008 - 4:08pm

I'm about to do just that. Anyone wonder why I'm rolling around on the floor looking for my marbles?

"It's always darkest before it turns absolutely pitch black."
- Paul Newman

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Submitted by pissedoffinNC. on Tue, 01/22/2008 - 4:33pm

wow! your looking for your marbles too?! YES!! Im not the only one with marbles all over the place!! But to be honest.. I would have waited to have a relationship with my husband and waited till the ex psycho was completely out of the picture because we started dating after they had been separated and started the divorce process... she found out about me and called it cheating because they were in the middle of a divorce so now our lives are trying to be made into nighmares because thats what she really thinks.. So to be honest I would have told him to iron his shit out and then come talk to me.. you know?

"Challenges are what make life interesting; overcoming them is what makes life meaningful."
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Submitted by laurels4u on Tue, 01/22/2008 - 4:20pm

without children, I'd make damn sure I'd marry a man whose parents either lived on the opposite side of the country, in another country, or were deceased. I've about had it with all of them. Geesh!

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Submitted by Georgie Girl on Tue, 01/22/2008 - 4:42pm

There is no way I would subject myself to this kind of b*llsh*t again.

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Submitted by dpowers on Tue, 01/22/2008 - 6:59pm

THANK GOD
im not crazy i was hoping i wasnt the only one that hates this stepmom role so much that i would never do this again i think i would touch a hot stove first.........