yeaaaaaaaaaaa
well the mooch moved out.hubby said if i wanted to start charging him half the bills that was fine sooooo last night i made him out a bill which was half of the lights,water,rent,and direct tv. internet and i tapede it to his door it was about 416.00 not bad for room and board being hes lived here rent free for almost 2 years and has more money in the bank than us. well now hubby is mad at me because i told him that proves my point the only reason he was here is because it was rent free and he could save his money,hubbys response was he didnt think so he thinks he moved out because of the tenion because i didnt want him here hell i havent wanted him here rent free for the last 6 months and he never moved out not til i started charging. he moved in the middle of the night no bye,kiss my butt or anything... what does that tell you all?
Judge Judy - are you listening.....
I hope he left you a check! It might be a small price to pay though for peace of mind. Get your locks rekeyed. Doesn't take very long and most locksmiths are available 24hr/day.
You sound very relieved that he is gone, I'm sure you don't mind that he didn't kiss you with his mouth. Let me know if I can do anything for ya. Contact Judge Judy or something.
Stepwitch
Thank you Disney for portraying a positive image on all stepmothers!!!!
nope
nope he didnt leave anything but a mess, and the stuff he didnt want or need. i told hubby that he didnt have to leave all he needed to do is help with the bills,well i guess he seen the free ride was over,WHY CANT HUBBY SEE THAT HE WAS JUST USING HIM!!!!!!!!!!its always my fault oh well yes im very glad hes gone. i proved my point.
Good for You!
Congratulations on taking action DPowers! You earned your name (Power!), or at least your steptalk handle. It's your home, and you took control. We could all learn from you.
So all you had to do was threaten to have adult SS pay part of the bills and he bailed out? How lucky is that? So much for close family ties. I can envision hundreds of bills being posted on the doors of entitled, mooching young-adult leeches tonight. Look out...
We could have our own revolution!
ya im proud of myself
i was sick of seeing my husband being took advandage of even if it is his own child, yes all i did was but a bill on his door for half of the bills and he bailed like i said i guess he knew that i wasnt going to put up with it. when me and my husband meet he had his daughter, her son,and husband, and the mooch living with him and you guessed it he paid all the bills and the daughter and husband made 20.00 an hour at there jobs. well when we got married they bought a house and moved then mooch and hubby went overseas and mooch was suppossed to stay here til he could find somewhere well that was 2 years ago so i hads enough, he would live down there and not speak to me but he would come up and eat when i left. that was bad, he would come and go as he pleased all he had to do was help out but he bailed, i still dont know why hubby cant see this?
That is TOO funny!!
You go girl!!
your hubby must be flexible
to stick his head up his own behind like that?? If moving in middle of the nnight to not pay doesn't tell him................well as I always say , some parents stick their heads up their own butts so they won't see their children's crap!!!
"We don't understand life anymore at 40 then at 20, but we know it and admit it" Jules Renard
hes not that flexible
hes just an enabler i seen that word on here and it fits him perfect.im just waiting to see what happens when hubby gets home im sure i will get the silent treatment. i know when my kids treat me like crap why cant he. my 20 year old son moved in for 1 day i told him he would have to get a job and boom he was gone hubby seen his bad!!!!!!!!i just dont get it.