This was a drama free event for the most part.

As for SD32, the first night there we did not speak probably because I didn't see her much. Hubster and I had another event to go to. We all had breakfast the next day and she was at the other end of the table which was fine. After breakfast, she was quite civil and was so for the rest of the weekend. So was I. There was no drama and no chewing out by here for some perceived injustice. This was a first.

I'm thinking her fiance has a lot to do with the change in behavior. The only time she and her sis got upset was when they wanted to go to dinner at 10PM (hubs and I ate already) and we were going to skip it. Before the sh!t-storm started, we said we would go and have a cocktail or a snack. The whole group (16, 6 of them the gkids) went and we stayed the latest. They can't get upset about that! (by the way, who feeds little kids dinner at 10-11PM?).

Thanks all for your previous advice. Worked great!. Now we wait the normal 7-days post visit. It's been a habit of SD32 to send a nasty long toxic text after a visit to shred her dad for something he did "wrong." Hopefully, not this time