So both of the ADULT SS's were address as to the fact that the key has been moved and that just coming over when we are not there is not an option. The younger one kind of seemed to be thinking of making a reply but kept quiet. I am certain he will cry to daddy but daddy knows this is the end of me feeling like I am being violated all the time with people coming and going in my home when ever they want.

I had to laugh as the older one even picked up a frozen pizza and brought it over when he came to watch the game with his dad while I was gone. I guess me making a little scene when I went to get a frozen sandwich from the freezer and there was only 1 left when there were 3 before the younger SS came over uninvited to use my kitchen got the point across. I just said I f---g hate it that I shop and plan for OUR needs and then when I want something its GONE. Guess the Bitch in me came out just a little. :jawdrop:

Husband was really uncomfortable about it all but I just looked at him and said we need to figure out a better NEW NEW place for our key and for emergency sake only his oldest son will know where it is. My youngest daughter who is over 2 hours away from us has a key in case there were ever an accident or God forbid a death. She is to be the one to instruct our healthcare and our estate. Even though she is my husbands SD he knows that of our 6 adult kids she has the most level head.

So all in all it was a good few days. I am sure we will have to remind a bit but may be on the good road. AMEN