DH and I have been married for 2 years, together for 3 and he has a daughter who is 9. We have a bio child who is 7 months. My issue is I moved from my hometown to be with him 3 years ago because of his DD and I can't stand her. Now that we have a child of our own, I want to move back to my hometown (2hrs away). I've told DH from the start one day he would have to chose between me and his DD but now that I have my own son to think about, I want to move ASAP. How can I have this convo with him without him getting very upset? We originally said 5 years but now I'm thinking 6months to a year to move. And I don't want his DD to come with us because that would Be awful. I'm already miserable when she comes for her week and I get moody and angry while she's here. Help!